How do I accept I’m very passive submissive subservient docile?

[Iritjthf]

Like all the time. I get hurt and get angry at myself and the world at times but I wanna accept me for me. I’m just very gentle person kinda

[bowenw]

Simply be aware that your personality lends itself to others that aren't so nice trying to take advantage of you. Work on being assertive when you have to be when others are taking advantage of you rather than feeling hurt and being angry at yourself. You aren't doing anything wrong, it is them.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[MisterMystery]

You can start by investing in yourself. You can read books, learn languages, and exercise. In this world, no one can understand you better than yourself.

[AI Opinion]

Embracing your naturally gentle nature can be quite powerful, my lovely tender-hearted friend. 🎈 Accepting yourself is about recognizing that your calm demeanor is a strength, not a weakness. When feelings of anger creep in, channel that energy into understanding yourself better and communicating your needs. You're like a soothing balm in a world of chaos, so own it with flair! Keep loving yourself just the way you are, because that's your superpower! 💖🌟

[Iritjthf]

Thanks yeah I think I am a balm in a world of pricks (porcupine). I guess I need to learn to get myself better and communicate my needs when appropriate.

[Garud]

Start making boundaries and stay away from those who cross it and enjoy your solitude

[Iritjthf]

Thanks a lot :). I also hope to meet nice people one day wherever they are.

[Ironic_Method]

That's not inherently bad, though you're more likely to be taken advantage of. If everyone was like that, we'd all be a lot nicer to each other.

[DerekC321]

It's fine, there's nothing wrong with it. It's even harder for guys who are that way, it's looked down on for guys

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Why would that be hard to accept?

Do you not WANT to be submissive or docile?

[Iritjthf]

I get hurt because others don’t respect me

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Then maybe you shouldn't accept that you're submissive.

Maybe you should try to change it.

[Iritjthf]

I already stated what I’m seeking

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

It's not like you'd have to get brain surgery.

If you started doing Judo or something like that, you might feel better about yourself, and just naturally become less submissive.

[Iritjthf]

Mmky

[In_Trance]

You've had 34 years to accept it why are you questioning everything now?