Guys, For those who are considered avoident/avoidant texters have you ever had luck with an anxious texter?

[Anonymous]

I'm anxious texter he's avoidant

I want to know from avoidant person pov how do you guys work out with an anxious texting female... what should I do, advice and experience would be appreciated.

[ChicoFromThe305]

What's an anxious texter?

[Asker]

Anxious texters are people who use texting to feel secure and connected in a relationship. They usually send frequent texts to feel a sense of security and to feel reassurance. They may feel rejected if their partner or whatever doesn't respond to their texts.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Is it like a long distance thing tho? Cause I would imagine that only happens with long distance no?

[Asker]

Eh maybe but like I feel avoidant texters are kinda like ghosting except it maybe different cause they come back usually but when they do like in my situation rn it's because I get anxious with not hearing from that person for a while and it leads me with anxiety and overthinking. And it's not long distance he likes me but we have different texting styles he's also an introvert and gets overwhelmed by my anxious texting but we do talk. But I wanna make it work

[ChicoFromThe305]

If y'all can accept each other for what y'all are then it's possible y'all can work