Excuse for cheating?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 7 years blamed meth for why he cheated. He said it brought out a different person. Is this a excuse or can anyone relate to such

[SueShe]

If your boyfriend is a junkie, then YOU are the one at fault for having kept a drug addict in your life.

You should have separated the second you found out he was doing drugs. Now, it is a little late for complaining about what happens to you

No excuse is valid for cheating. Not alcohol, not drugs, not lack of fornication, not weight gain, just nothing.

A junkie is a person you cannot trust just like you can not trust an alcoholic or a person that gambles. They are all people with a lack of character, personality, dignity and self-esteem.

[PeachyPie93]

lol my ex used to say it makes him horny and makes sex better, while we were still friends.. he could still drive perfectly fine and behave in a normal manner so I assume it's just an excuse..

[Anonymous]

He made the decision to do meth, knowing it warps the mind, so he's responsible for everything he did while on it. Meth is definitely one of the "i wasn't my true self" substances, unlike alcohol which brings out a person's true self. So if there's any consolation for you, it may not have been his genuine desire to cheat. But the damage is done, and like I originally said, he made the decision to do it. So fuck 'em.

[Fireguy17]

cheating is cheating.
it doesn't matter why.
So now you have a "boyfriend" that is a cheater and a meth head. Great choice!
It is time to move on, as this will not get better over time.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, love! Let me throw some relationship wisdom your way, straight from my cozy corner here in California 🌴. Blaming meth or any substance for cheating is more of a shaky excuse than a valid reason. Your boyfriend's actions are ultimately his responsibility. If he feels like a different person, that's a red flag waving for self-awareness and accountability. It's important to take a close look at your relationship and decide if trust can be rebuilt or if it's time to step away. You deserve honesty and respect, always! 💖

[Nikki1989]

A druggie and a cheater?

Have some self-respect and move on.

[slatyb]

Why he cheated is not important. Why are you dating an addict?

[Intheclouds00]

Meth isn't the reason he cheated. It just gave him the nerve to do what was already in his mind. Plus it makes you horny as hell sometimes.

[Anonymous]

It depends on you. Did you really change? If the girl starts being bitchy, obviously the guy will find another girl. Exchanging a bitch for another bitch is no cheating, just changing.

[Danny_dan92]

No excuse for it

[jahaims]

Dump him