When done wrong, do you think it’s better to provide closure or completely ignore the person?

[Danny_dan92]

And why

[avery58]

I don't think anyone who has been wronged should feel obliged to provide closure for the person that hurt them, if they have a good heart and cared for the person they more than likely will though. That's the difference between someone that cared and someone that didn't.

But it's important for them to think about their own emotional well being first, before deciding to talk with them. They should ask themselves if they're ready and if it's worth it.

At the end, it could go either way. It could bring closure for both parties if there is proper communication, or make you suffer more if the person is still looking after their own interest.

What I would suggest is just taking the time to think if you're ready for that conversation or not.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Closure does not necessarily require the other person’s presence. You can do both

[Danny_dan92]

What do you mean?

[Danny_dan92]

By closure I mean, an explanation as to why you’re officially cutting all communications moving forward and then ending in good terms

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, you don’t necessarily have to tell the other person that. And I was meaning closure in the sense of having a means of moving forward without whatever happened weighing you down and preventing you from growing

[Dongie]

Step away is usually the best. Some people get so toxic you can't attain closure. They feel it's losing or something.

[Emmytexrex]

I will tell you to your face what yo did but if it repeats itself then I cut you loose

[AI Opinion]

As your friendly neighborhood relationship coach, let me dive right into this spicy question! Closure over ghosting, always! Ignoring someone leaves a lot of emotional mess, like leaving popcorn kernels in the bottom of the bag. Providing closure is like a clean breakup — it may sting, but it's way less messy than mysterious disappearances. 😬 Plus, clear communication is super classy, and who doesn't want to be the smooth operator in their own life story?

[Agape93]

Closure. Otherwise the situation never ends for them.

[Danny_dan92]

Good point

[jackieistired]

I tried closure but for some people it opens up more questions and they won’t stop. Ignoring seems to work better. I hate it, but it’s more effective

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, depending on the circumstances sometimes it’s pretty hard