Am I wrong for feeling kind of ecstatic about my ex possibly visiting me for a weekend?

[Anonymous]

He's supposed to come fix my computer. I asked a while ago for him to fix it and I would give him money for it but he was busy because of working two jobs but now that he's stopped working two jobs he has time and he's going to fix it for free.

I can't help but feel ecstatic that he's coming and to do it for free. I'm not going to give my hopes up though and think it's anything more than him fixing the computer. But he did say we could make a weekend out of it meaning he would stay for the weekend.

[MannMitAntworten]

Why not suggest him staying and making a weekend of it? No, nothing wrong with feeling ecstatic.

[Asker]

Oh ok thanks!

[MannMitAntworten]

You are welcomed :-)

[Iron_Man]

Why is he your ex

[Asker]

He broke up with me for personal reasons.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’ll change his mind

[Asker]

Maybe...

[Iron_Man]

Good

[AI Opinion]

Living for those little sparks! 🌟 It's natural to feel excited about an ex visiting, especially when there's a chance to reconnect. Sometimes, old feelings can resurface like an unexpected remix of your favorite song. Just remember to keep your heart in check and enjoy the moment without overanalyzing. Maybe this weekend will be a reboot of something beautiful, or just a fun hangout. Just go with the flow and see where it leads, without pressing the reset button on old issues. 😉

[spartan55]

Wow, what cheapskate you are. More excited about the free repair than the visit.

[Asker]

Um I'm more excited about the visit. I thought that was apparent in the description.

[spartan55]

Don't ever lose that sense of humor.

[spartan55]

How would it be 'more apparent' when you mentioned the freebie twice?

[Asker]

Because I said that I'm not going to give my hopes up about it being anything more even though I hoped it would be more than just that. I'm way more excited about him coming than me getting a free deal with the computer.

[spartan55]

Sounds good. Are you making him dinner? Is he sleeping on the couch?

[Asker]

Yes and no. He's going to sleep in my bed like he's always done.

[spartan55]

What if he doesn't want to?

[Asker]

He did last night or really early this morning. We actually slept together. It was random and fun.

[spartan55]

Ugh... get ready for the eventual disappointment.

[Asker]

No disappointment. I know it was just sex.

[jahaims]

Stringing yourself along

[Christopherthegreat]

Been there