Codependency in a long distance relationship, how to get over it?

[Anonymous]

We are both in different countries with a difference of 12 hours time zones. I am quite dependent on him when it comes to my moods and daily routines. Him on the other hand is very chill and nonchalant. We have started to have issues in our relationship where sometimes he is not around and I am becoming overly emotional about small things. I understand his pov but i dont know how to work on it from my end

[AI Opinion]

Helping people untangle the relationship web is my thing, and it sounds like you’re in a bit of a pickle! Long-distance love, combined with codependency, can feel like a rom-com turned thriller. 📞🌍 First, focus on setting boundaries that respect your emotional independence while sizzling with love. Try filling your ‘me-time’ with hobbies, friends, or something that makes your spirit groove. 💃 Remember, he’s your partner, not your mood manager. A little less chill vibe might help him too! Communication is key—turn that emotional rollercoaster into a love cruise! 🛳️❤️

[PeachyPie93]

Distance yourself from him, get back to your hobbies and friends. Go out and not worry what he is up to.. to be honest things might seem great online but in person when you live together and all that a lot of people tend to be shit. I had a long distance relationship for 2 years we talked and hung out on video chat for hours every day.. it was fine but we had weird codependency issues like this where we were both addicted lol. Things were different when we actually moved in with each other and he actually "owned me" he was the type to ignore me, often being on his phone or playing games for days and would say and do rude things thinking its funny. So just know most men fake their personality until they get you and know you won't leave. I suggest finding someone closer to home.. so if they turn out shit at least you didn't move for them or vice versa.

[In_Trance]

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