So far never. I never bother about what my man wears. Even thought he used to dress up nicely, wearing shirt and neat clothes with nice hair style. And now he often just wears t-shirt with short like Tourist. I still love him, just kinda weird coz that makes me over dressed sometimes.
Only if, example, they wanna dress up like a clown and we're visiting a temple or something 😂🙄 Believe me, I speak from experience
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No, I am not controlling that way whatsoever, I might suggest an outfit to her , and tell her I like a certain outfit on her , but I would never make her feel obligated to wear it , if she asks me for my advice? I will give her an honest opinion on whether it looks good on her or not , but that’s only if she asks me. I think people that demand their partner to dress the way they want them to dress , are complete assholes in my opinion , I would never tell a girl what she needs to look like to appease me , controlling assholes do that to their partners’ and if that partner was wise , they should kick them to the curb where they belong. That isn’t love , that is abuse and control
No, she can wear whatever we wants. We went to a wedding of a close family member recently, and I made some comments and suggestions on what to wear, then she went out and bought a very nice dress. We also went out together and got me a new outfit to wear.
As a guy that values aesthetic appeal, I do care what my partner wears. Whether it's just in poor fashion taste or is too provocative for no reason, I prefer girls that have good or similar fashion sense to myself.
Yea, I like guys to have a certain street/casual style similar to my own. I’m not saying we have to dress similar at the same time but these are just styles i like on a guy. I’m not really into the dressy suit/type type of dude nor the ones that wear cardigans, capris, jorts, flat caps, oxfords, clarks, wallabees, etc
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Oooo you know how i like it
Cry tears of joy
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Well damn!!
But being wrong feels so right
Punish me every which way
How you wanna punish me
Aww you’re too scared to have a little public fun
Of course
Sounds like a game of SAW
Do i really have to be tied up if i promise to stand/sit still?
Haha i promise to behave
Sometimes when he won't dress casual. He'll wear t-shirts n shit but doesn't like sweatpants or athletic shorts or anything like that, so we'll go work out and he's in fucking cargo shorts. Or go to a casual hangout & he's in jeans. It's whatever it's his choice to be uncomfortable. It just bothers me bc sometimes makes me feel underdressed.
I'm with you. You dress for the occasion - don't be that asshole who shows up at a wake wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt! Luckily, this dreg of humanity had friends that cared about him and they shoved/dragged him outside and SCREAMED at him to come back when he's proper.
Ik it's the thought that counts but SOMETIMES it's not enough! Take some pride in yourself & those around you!
Damn, there was this one time, yes, I don't know why, I have been suddenly bothered by white socks, the sportswear type. It threw me off, just like that. For a moment. Mind is strange.
People as well.
No.
I married a woman with similar values and boundaries as me.
It would have bothered me if she had wanted to wear revealing, skimpy clothes and bathing suits. I wouldn't have stayed with any woman who expected to wear stuff like that while being in a "committed" relationship with me.
That is why it is important to go long term only with those that share your boundaries and values.
as long as it's not a skirt or a dress I should be fine :D
you mean underwear? no fucking way... I'm old fashioned and my men wear men's stuff :D
It might because of your point on occasion. It did bother me when a girlfriend dressed far too casual for an anniversary dinner. Turned out she was cheating.
Yeah it Does
My ex boyfriends flannels and backwards caps
were more of a turn off than his lack of an erection
And less impressive than his skill of ejaculation
Dude was more fucking annoying
than a melting ice cream truck
I don't care what the boyfriend wears. He dresses appropriately for what we are doing. Never been an issue.
If I don't like it I will try to subtly tell him to change in a ways I like
Strategical thinking, nice haha
@Maybe_Maybe_not I think I got it from my family as nobody is honest here and always "tourne autour du pot" for saying things.
Like my mother never asked directly to do any chores she would just say "oh I had a long day at work, my feet hurt, etc.." and those meant I had to clean all the dishes, tidy up the house a bit, etc.. ut she never asked me directly which is kind of crazy as a child I didn't understood what she was trying to say so I didn't clean the dishes then she would blow up on me and scream while walking around the house, i was very confused up until she told me straight the she wanted me to clean the dishes and I should have understand just by the sentence of "my feet hurt" like I"m pretty dense for sure.
But I guess it made me learn technic for others area of my life of trying to get things in a nicer ways and not rude ways that could offense people.
Hmmm I get it, this is a behaviour I've seen in many areas of life, parent to children and later inside a couple. Wanting people to be telepaths and then blaming them for not being telepaths...
I've even discussed that with a girlfriend some years ago, she was surprised I was concerned by her strategical, unnatural approach in communication. She basically told me "that's how it works, it's normal". It was normal in her perspective, yes, because she learned to communicate a certain way, because she has been influenced this way.
Now, your approach is different, it is still wrong to me because you have a set goal to "modify" him to your taste instead of accepting him. But you care for him while pursuing your goal, and there is a chance he matches your expectations willingly. So, morally speaking you're flirting with the grey to me, I can't say I like that, but I see also you're doing this respectfully. Grey area lol
@Maybe_Maybe_not It's pretty annoying but in everywhere I worked it also worked this ways so I'm pretty sure it's "normal" for a big amount of people. They just can never be straight forward. Some countries like Japan are even worse for it while apparently in Russia / Scandinavia they're ways more straight forward.
It's annoying but if they refuse to change we can just adapt to their ways of communication.
A lot of guys have no fashion sense at all so I doubt they would mind if I tried to get them to dress in a ways that I liked, it's different with people who have strong fashion sense those I wouldn't go try to change them because they have their own style but guy that just take the first shirt and pants don't even care what they wear so I don't think trying to get them to wear a nicer shirt / pants would actually bother them.
Oh Japan looks like a terrible place to live in, I agree, they have so many traditional rules to prevent any authenticity to happen. While Russia seems way more direct in communication, per tradition, but it comes with a drawback, lack of tact can also be a killer in communicating lol
Your point about proposing styles for someone not caring about fashion is a fair point, yes :)
I choose someone cuz I like them for them. So it wouldn’t bother me.
u never has... except one time
an Aaron Rodgers jersey...
No actually unless she's going to be cold or something.
I have wanted her to wear tops to show off her beautiful boobs a bit but she is more demure. She didn’t want that type of attention. I don’t suggest it anymore and that’s fine.
It doesn't bother me, but I love when she's wearing something sexy, even when I'm not with her
Sometimes. Usually I want her to not be afraid to be more sexy and show off her rack and legs
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