Do you mind what your girlfriend is wearing? Do you ever interfere with what she's wearing?

Question

Do you ever interfere? Or are you confused about some issues? I think the other person should make the final decision, but you can give an opinion.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Yes, I mind.

I want her to wear clothes that are appropriate to the situation, that make ME look good, and above all, do not disrespect me. Obviously a bikini is perfectly fine on the beach or around a pool, but not acceptable to wear to the mall, much less to a family BBQ. A slutty dress is perfectly appropriate if we're going to an adults-only party together in the evening, but not okay to wear to shop at Costco.

If she has questions, she can come and ask me. Mostly I let her make her own judgements, and I rarely need to make any comments. I'm not at all unreasonable, and I've really had very, very little friction about this, but I also set standards and boundaries and attitudes VERY EARLY into the relationship and gave my reasons for doing so, and because she then understands my perspective, it's just so rare that there's any issue.

Now, because, being a Dominant, I tend to attract and date submissives almost exclusively, some of those girls PREFER me to choose her outfits, which is fine. For the others, I lay out the rules and the reasonings, and I leave it to her best judgement, usually with just a few corrections early on. When she makes good choices, she is shown appreciation and respect, and when she makes bad choices, she doesn't - and since she'd much rather get the appreciation, she adjusts quickly.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

It depends where we are, where we may be going and what we will be doing.

Usually I don't have a problem with what she wears as she knows two things that I have told her at one point.

1.) "You're going to do what you're going to do, but actions have consequences,"

2.) "There is a time and place to wear that, but I would recommend something else."

She dresses to occasion, but every now and then dresses in something eye catching that get looks from other guys while we are out. Some have approached her while we were together and this gets resolved one of two ways.

Either she comments straight up that she is here with me or I introduce myself to the guy and take control, depends on which of us gets to it first. No need to be hostile to the guy, just greet him and introduce ourselves and if he seems cool we will let him hang with us for a bit before carrying on with our night. Having a good looking partner will draw looks and will test you quite a bit, it just matters how you respond.

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

He'll give me feedback on what I'm wearing. Like if it compliments my figure or if it looks good/questionable for where I'm going. He's never told me not to wear something because he's uncomfortable, with the only exception being to his family events. Otherwise, I'm the trophy blonde girlfriend with the bimbo titties (his mom's own words before she knew my background 😆 )

LEETSBEREAL · Accepted Answer

I don't mind his opinion. But if he doesn't like it really going to question why we are together? If he is complimenting me it's all good. If he's looking nervous... always has something to say and it's clear he`s not happy. I think its time to call it a day.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I like it when my man compliments me or gives me suggestions on my outfit. Especially when his face says it all. It’s sexy af. Makes me want to kiss his face and grab that butt 🤣

lightbulb27 · Answer

I like what she wears and generally supportive. If I see something I don't like... usually a color, I suggest a change and offer to get help shop and get something else.

I'm a little nervous when she wears expensive jewlery, but it's her call on that... she likes to wear it... so be it.

It's up to her, but I have opinions. If I had to interfere all the time with what she wears, I'd think there's a bigger issue. For example, I see girls wearing nose rings, eye rings, tattoos, weird platform shoes, etc.. blech!

ohsheeT · Answer

There's only one decision and that's what she wants to wear you can't tell anybody what to wear and what not to wear you can't tell anybody what to do and what not to do it has to be their choice you might not like it but that's just the way it is one day it might change maybe she will compromise or whatever but in that moment you can tell her that you might not like it but that doesn't mean you can tell her what to do

DoctorSex · Answer

Yes, if she dresses inappropriately she will be hearing from my PR team. As my partner you represent me in the eyes of the world. People will often edit the way they treat me based on how you behave and dress.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

ethanallen · Answer

I have never worried about how my girlfriend dressed but if a women went out with me and I thought it was slutty, I would ask her to change. I have to wonder if she wants my attention or the attention of other men. No woman has to show her tits and ass to get my attention.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nope I don’t really say anything regarding that. Except complimenting what she’s wearing or suggesting things I think might look good.

Only time I’d really say something is if she was wearing something to inappropriate for where we’re going.

Reaper1985 · Answer

I tend to prefer dating a girl who dresses in a more modest or conservative manner while still wearing something figure flattering when out in public/group setting. rather she save the more provocative or reveling clothing for when it's just to two of us alone in private.

lucas262 · Answer

It depends on why she wears it. If I know she has a habit of trying to get attention from other men. It's not ok. I'm glad she looks sexy. But having to fight off other men constantly and inviting charmers go come after her isn't what I want.

Modesty is still a virtue and if it was my kid forget it.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I'll say something if she has a wardrobe malfunction or is not dressing appropriately to the occasion but it's not a big deal.

Honestly, I like to dress up the women in my life, helping them look pretty is deeply rewarding for me. I'd like to learn to make cosplay outfits at some point, I've just been busy AF.

Danzigdawson · Answer

No, that's stupid. Unless of course she wants to wear a medieval armor to a traditional wedding.

If you don't trust your girlfriend, find someone else.

If you can't find someone else who you trust, you may be the problem.

RealMarek · Answer

I have never intervened in my gf’s decision on what she wears. I intentionally sought a woman who would be capable of making those decisions for herself in an appropriate way.

MTC29 · Answer

Do you ever interfere [with what your girlfriend is wearing?] Do I wish death? Why not put a gun to my head right now?  No, I'll say nothing other than to flatter her.

Losalt · Answer

Well, I like having a relationship based on BDSM power dynamics, so picking her clothes is, or can be, a part of that. There's a lot of fun that can be had with that. ;-)

HighValue · Answer

If she chose to wear revealing or sexy outfits when going somewhere without me I'd leave her. I won't tolerate that kind of disrespect in a relationship.

loveslongnails · Answer

My girlfriend's in the past, and my SO now, have cared about my opinion on what they wore because they thought/think I have a good eye for what looks best. Yes, there have a few times when I've said "that outfit just doesn't work".

AviatorTom · Answer

A woman can always wear whatever she wants. I may drop some hints, say about where we're going on our date, but she picks out her outfit.

20yearsolder · Answer

I will give my opinion if asked otherwise I have no issues with her wearing whatever she wants to wear

Xtendable · Answer

Opinions and suggestions are fine. “I hope you’re not wearing underwear with that outfit, baby.”

Plinko · Answer

I don't interfere. I trust her to respect me by being mildly modest about what she wears. I do the same for her in my behavior.

AndrésC64 · Answer

She's a big girl, she can pick out her own clothes.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I don’t mind, unless she’s over/under dressed for wherever we’re going/doing. The only clothing I hate is Crop Tops, so I’d hope she doesn’t wear it, but it’s ultimately her decision.

ElementoP · Answer

I don't, but I kinda wish she'd dress a little sluttier. She could pull it off, but she won't because she's a good girl

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not that I know of. I've lived through the punk era so, you'd have to get REALLY weird for me to question it!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nah. My girlfriends have always just worn whatever they wanted.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

guys, don't ever tell your girl what she should and shouldn't wear. you will regret it, I GUARAN FUCKING TEE IT

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Only time I interfere is when it’s an active day and they decide they wanna wear something less comfy for the activities, I don’t want them to get hurt

Zolly99999 · Answer

Not at all. I don't mind if other guys check her out. It let's me know I'm with an attractive women that other guys desire and they can't have and she is all mine lol

dolemite89 · Answer

if she’s wearing something that’s clearly inappropriate for like a formal event i’ll tell her but girls are usually good at judging what to wear for the situation

NNWSSEnew · Answer

When I was in a relationship don't wear makeup don't wear short skirts don't show your ass don't show tits and that getting how I met you

Wise4myage · Answer

No, never. She could walk around naked, lol.

Anonymous · Answer

My girlfriend comes over quite a bit I have the Glass door Seeable and I don’t hide the glass door with shades we fuck on the bed and people can see when me and her Fuck I don’t give a Shit

vald9inches · Answer

Why would i care about what she wears? Nobody ever cares about what i wear lol

Anonymous · Answer

I couldn't possibly care less, she's a grown ass woman, she can dress herself.

isoterminal2060 · Answer

I don't generally don t say anything unless she Underdresses

Anonymous · Answer

Idc what she wearing... It's none of my business

Kaneki05 · Answer

No why would I?

LiamSawyer · Answer

I would trust her sense of style.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

She's a grown woman who can wear what she wants.

Andres77 · Answer

She wears whatever she wants,

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Nah why should I care really?

babyyyxxx · Answer

I like to look good for my guy

Fireguy17 · Answer

No not at all.

chokeonDaddysbigD · Answer

She's naked

panamared1 · Answer

Would not care

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