What makes a man cheat on his wife?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Lack of intimacy and affection, , always putting him down and not making him feel valued or appreciated, , always nagging and complaining to him that he isn’t the man you wanted him to be , comparing him to other people , pretty much lack of respect and consistently disrespecting him , nothing he does is ever good enough , never admitting you are wrong , he is always to blame , these are just some things that could push a guy to cheat on you if you don’t want a guy to cheat , learn to respect him the way you want to be respected, learn to remove selfishness from yourself and make him your top priority over anyone else , over your friends’ over your family , Love him the way you want to be loved in return , set boundaries together and follow those boundaries the same way you want him following for you , Your partner should always be your number 1 , if you have a problem you fix it together , not run to someone else

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

There will be lots of excuses, but ultimately it is because he lacks integrity.

AviatorTom · Answer

Cheating is almost always the result of opportunity, typically coupled with temporary weakness. There may be many specific reason why a husband would cheat on his wife, or a wife cheat on her husband, but without the opportunity, cheating isn't going to happen.

Anonymous · Answer

Men who are satisfied in their relationship and grateful for their partner don't cheat. Satisfy your man and give him reason to be grateful, and he will remain loyal.

Ultimately, men and women cheat for the very same reasons. People love to say that women who cheat do it because they are emotionally unsatisfied, so they blame men for not giving their partner enough attention and affection. But men also cheat because they are emotionally unsatisfied. The difference is that men and women need different things to feel emotionally fulfilled. For men, emotional satisfaction comes through feeling appreciated and respected, AND being sexually satisfied. Very different from what makes women feel emotionally satisfied... attention, affection.

Women need sex too, but it does not play the same role in their emotional satisfaction as it does for men. And because sex is involved, it's much easier for women to claim men are selfish when they cheat, which is very intellectually dishonest. Men and women have different needs. Claiming men are more selfish than women for needing to feel fulfilled is wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

You can do everything right and give him sex and food and a family and if the right girl seduces him that’s all it takes. If the wrong girl seduces him, even if you don’t give him regular sex and food and a family, likely he won’t cheat. That’s how it is. Most men don’t give up on an upscale in sexual life if they’re THAT seduced. She doesn’t even have to look better than you as long as they achieve seduction and tease so much where he can’t no more. That’s a sad truth. It goes hard and it takes a lot for the man to turn it down.

that’s why many times you see them crying to the wife after.
but not all of them, some of them are actually willing to just end it with the wife and go for the new one because they had better sex. Even if the other one did everything right.

Take for example Shakira, she was even willing to forgive and forget and yet he wanted her to know about it to just end all with her no matter what.
while others beg and beg and never go back to the one they cheated with, it just happened after seduction even if they love the “wife”.

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

If a girl gives a guy any attitude
As starts being a bitch for no reason
Where she's too hard on him
And he's doing the best he can
But she keeps pressuring
He's gonna secretly resent her for it
And lose respect
And get that satisfying reward pleasure for himself elsewhere
Like a little kid disobeying their parent
And doing something they know they're not supposed to
Guys get a ADHD thrill out of cheating just like that
It's a ego booster for them
Whenever they feel they've done just about enough
But aren't getting the understanding recognition of compassion they know they deserve

A woman is supposed to show they're grateful
By pleasing a man sexually

If they don't give a fuck why should the guy

So if they don't get one they're still gonna make sure
They have one

And what better fun
Than without her permission?

She ain't his Mom to tell him what to do

BetaBucks · Answer

Here's all the reasons I've heard. The number one, far and away, is being with a wife that treats him disrespectfully. Talking down to him, being aggressive and rude, etc... Second most common is him being cheated on, even if he can't prove it. Third most common is having no, or barely any sex. The irony being that the woman is already cheating 99% of the time. Fourth is the woman being cold and emotionally distant. This also means she's cheating most of the time. Fifth is the serial cheaters. These guys were promiscuous from the start, and never planned on being faithful anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

In my case, my wife and I hadn't had sex for ages. I tried everything to get that part of our relationship back. Nothing worked. At one point, she said, "it wasn't important [to her]".

Eventually, time without sex, high hormones and the right opportunity "made" me do it.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Her lack of interest in intimacy and looking good for him...

I work in a sex club n i m always either not dressed or barely dressed and he sees me all the times at work n still when we r home he wants me to be specially ready myself for him with my hair n makeup n all... n i always put in the effort and try my best to look great for him

IslaTheWitch · Answer

laziness in fixing or ending a relationship that isn't working

Unit1 · Answer

This is but one factor. Laziness, passiveness, little to no effort from her side, neglect.

4ngelic · Answer

- not being in love with her anymore

- being sexually unsatisfied by her

- not finding her attractive anymore

- having an opportunity to cheat and not being able to resist

- not thinking cheating is bad

RageBabe · Answer

Lack of intimacy is typically one of the key factors, though there may be other contributing factors as well.

Redstang88 · Answer

Well a guy that comes home to peace, food, and regular sex is extremely unlikely to cheat. Remove those from a relationship and it can certainly push a guy away

stratford · Answer

He is addicited to the thrill of the chase His sexual preference is for something 'new Lack of sexual intimacy There are many reasons, as there are for wives who cheat on their husbands

Kelley1 · Answer

Super good looks. Men cheat if they can but most men cannot because women don't f**k average and other unattractive men.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

LACK OF SEX. NOW THAT doesn't MAKE IT RIGHT. But I think it's a huge factor

BlondieGirl_ · Answer

From what I’ve heard mainly she’s not sleeping with him. Men need sex.

KennethNoisewater · Answer

Probably just about the same exact thing that would make a wife cheat on her husband. People are fucking stupid. I believe cheaters should be branded.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i would never ever cheat on a wife. love is for keeps

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Because he's a wanker 😠 because he isn't getting any sex by his wife and is getting it this way re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

exitseven · Answer

it could be many things. or maybe he is just a dick.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because he's a piece of shit. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

NathanOlipop · Answer

He already had girlfriends when his future wife became his and he never broke up with them. Many such cases.

David5668 · Answer

There’s too many variables to provide a definitive answer. As the saying goes, what goes on behind a closed door……..

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Men cheat when his wife uses sex as a weapon, nags, complains, and is otherwise completely insufferable.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Lack of trust and poor communication. Sometimes the lack of sex.

Gospeedracer · Answer

Turning off the sex the moment you get a ring on your finger.

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

Easy, you don't give him enough sex or he found someone to suit his needs.

Raaj4you · Answer

If she refuses to have sex with me. Then I would definitely cheat on her.

Gerard567890 · Answer

Some guys are too scared to ask their wife for what they really want.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not getting sex. Bored with wife. Desires something fresh in a new woman.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Boredom horniness ego

jazzy34 · Answer

The list is endless and subjective.

FreyaRed · Answer

Being convinced they can go away with it

Nikki1989 · Answer

He is a man.

Jennz6 · Answer

Sexy beautiful gorgeous girls

genericname85 · Answer

his decision to fuck another woman.

Wise4myage · Answer

A lack of sex or no sex at all.

jahaims · Answer

Coping with self hate

Jackblue · Answer

His cock, really all there is to it.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same as what makes a woman cheat on her husband.

WatchedPot · Answer

Self permission.

noohair · Answer

Nagging and bitching can do that.

Shihab_91 · Answer

He a bad person... No excuse

josepppiiii · Answer

Loyalty is everything

Deserter2 · Answer

Maybe she farts in her sleep

Cheerfull009 · Answer

When wife cheats husband and does not care

virgo2267 · Answer

Sexless relationship

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

He just wants too

Vegasrunner · Answer

Options

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Insecurity

king09009 · Answer

Hot girl

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