Would you consider it legit to "skip" development between two people if they already know each other for a while?

[scooogy]

We actually know each other for six years now and shared quite some info with each other already, even experienced each other moody. Now I told myself, maybe even though I'm not dating her yet, I'd gift her a Christmas present this year.

[Anonymous]

I believe we can be more sensitive to the needs of our fellow man, that we can be better neighbours to each other. Sometimes we take to much for granted and we forget to tell each other we care. I think Christmas provides a wonderful opportunity to find friendships and to show our loved ones that they are important to us, that we're happy they are in the world. It's something we should do more often. And the spirit of Christmas is a joyous reminder of our responsibility as people.

[Nikki1989]

Well, a pre-existing friendship or connection can provide a solid foundation for a romantic relationship, so you already have that head start.

[spartan55]

Go for it. Fuck the development of talking stage. You do that when you date.