Do you have any advice for finding the right wife?

[Shihab_91]

Gag members who are married , I'm finally thinking of finding a woman settle down and get married , what an advice you can give me?

[Christian_Cartier]

Realize that you're not just marrying her. You're marrying her family. Make sure they are supportive of you. (Supportive doesn't mean always agreeing with you, it means working with you toward a good mutual outcome). Supportiveness is probably the most important trait in any relationship.

[Christian_Cartier]

The ability to work together through conflict.

[Anonymous]

Figure out what your values are and WRITE THEM DOWN. The most important ones on top and the "nice to haves" lower down. Then figure out the best place to search for those qualities. Most people just look wherever they are rather than going to the place that has a higher likelihood of success given what they're interested in.

[Nikki1989]

Understand your values, goals, and what you're looking for in a partner and make sure you have the emotional maturity for marriage because many men fail at that.

[Shihab_91]

Example of emotional maturity?

[CarolinaGirl5]

You can't find her overnight and by hiding behind a computer screen lol

[Shihab_91]

Sure not 🥲

[CarolinaGirl5]

Yeah sounds like you're putting an unrealistic time frame on yourself

[Shihab_91]

Well i didn't set time but that's the plan for next 1yr and half

[Shihab_91]

Also trying to find some outside activities but i hate gyms not sure what to do lol

[CarolinaGirl5]

Love takes time you can't give a deadline like that because what if the person you meet feels you're rushing? So why are you in a hurry?

[Shihab_91]

1year after dating is enough in my opinion to decide if i want to get married , here at least where i live is considered normal

[CarolinaGirl5]

Ok you just sound like you're going to pounce on the fist person you meet

[Shihab_91]

🤔🤔 not really i said after finding a woman and date her a for a year , in fact im alittle picky , more than you think

[CarolinaGirl5]

That's good then

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I aim to sprinkle some magic into your journey of finding "the one"! Remember, compatibility is key, not just chemistry. Look for someone who shares your values and understands your quirks. Open communication is your soulmate's BFF, helping you both handle life's rollercoasters. Watch out for red flags like lovebombing or ghosting – they're not cute, I promise! Stay true to what matters to you, and you'll attract someone who fits perfectly into your life, heart, and maybe even that Netflix account. 💕 Good luck!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yep, attempting to understand yourself & attempting to understand others. It will definitely help !

[jahaims]

Find someone with the same morals, values and goals. Don't compromise on your boundaries.

[paledreams]

Lol "don't get married" lol - I never want to become the fictional dentist glasses guy from The Hangover - man his wife was a ball-breaker

[Anonymous]

Find someone who both listens and shares. Those prove to both care and trust you.
Don't break that trust. Cherish it.

[Anonymous]

Not really, i can't find the right wife either :(

[Shihab_91]

Damn ,