Is the way you saw love before your first heartbreak, the same way you see love now? Has your perception of it changed?

[Emmytexrex]

[Finchie40]

I just treat girls’ the same way I want to be treated , I learned how to remove selfishness , when before I didn’t , especially when I was younger not realizing girls’and guys’ don’t really see eye to eye on things , so I learned to wear her shoes the same way I hope she wears mine , by doing that , I had more success in relationships. Not perfect, but better than before lol

[PeachyPie93]

I think before I got my heart broken I believed we all had a special one.. now I don't believe in real love anymore.. its all just convenience. Someone always falls in love and someone is always just playing along until they get bored.

[Emmytexrex]

Hmmm ok

[Emmytexrex]

Thanks for the mho

[michalpl00]

My first relationship ended one month ago, and I believe that you can fall in love with anyone and they become the one. When it gets boring, that’s when real love shows if you love the person, you will stay for the ups and downs. It will just show you the truth if it was meant to be. sometimes you will get your heartbroken I did. It was horrible, but also it made me realize that I am stronger and more experienced and I learned so much.

[NewWaves]

Yes it's changed. My view was very childish and idealistic. And I STILL have idealistic views, mind you. But more and more I realize the difficult way, that it's about sacrifice.

[Emmytexrex]

Yh I agree with you there it's all about sacrifice if you want a relationship to work you must compromise

[AI Opinion]

In the realm of love and heartbreak, perception shift is as real as ghosting after a bad date. Before my first heartbreak, love felt like an endless lovebombing sprinkle of fairy dust. Post-heartbreak? Well, it matured into something more intricate and realistic. Love now has layers, like a good lasagna, and comes with a few red flags to watch out for. It’s all about growing and understanding the depths rather than just the sparkles. 💖✨

[Vendetta_]

Couldn't have said it better myself. I knew I had found the one when it didn't start with some fairytale feeling. Instead, that fairytale feeling grew over time with, things felt stable and real and I can say 100% I've now experienced real love.

[Vendetta_]

Aaaand i just realized I responded to AI. That's embarrassing

[Emmytexrex]

Lol u don't have to be embarrassed

[CuriousMoonFox]

@Vendetta_ Be honest, it's because it's love doctor Brad 😉 Sorry, that wasn't thought provoking but maybe a little bit funny.

[Nikki1989]

I don't let myself fall victim to heartbreak. I just move on.

[Emmytexrex]

Wow ok

[Nikki1989]

Be strong, keep moving forward!

[Emmytexrex]

Thanks but I don't go through heart break I have an iron heart