Why would a boyfriend or girlfriend cheat in your own house?

[Anonymous]

It happened to me once 4-5 years ago. Ever since then, I don't ever let anyone move in with me. Nope, I didn't catch them in the act. Probably WWIII would've broken in if I would've walked into that. I would've been like ''WTF, seriously in my house, my stuff, how dare you''.

I found out because the other woman called me and sent me one of their text messages. Obviously I dumped him, rearranged some stuff and bought a new bed. I later found out the woman even ate some of my meals too.

Out of so many places to they can cheat, why would they do it in your own house.. at a place they could've easily gotten caught if I would've been dismissed earlier from work or if I had forgotten something? Why that level of great, blatant disrespect?

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's all thrill-seeking. The thrill of doing it and getting away with it.

As for the guy that cheated on you... I know exactly what he did wrong. He lied to the side chick, and probably told her he was single or broken up or something retarded like that... as soon as she realized she was getting played, it pissed her off. So she decided to get ahold of you and burned down his scam.

You should feel lucky because nothing sucks more than suspecting something to the point of basically knowing it, but you just don't have any real proof. That other woman saved you from a real shitty situation... although I bet it felt shitty all the way through.

The thing about cheaters, is they don't have any respect for you. They'll fuck on your bed, have the other girl wear your clothes and fuck her in them, and let her use your toothbrush. No respect... women do the same shit...

[Asker]

yes that's pretty much what happened. He lied to her on being on a break during our relationship and also lied about the house being his.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Wow, nothing like trying to impress the chicks with assets that are not even his. He sounds like a real class act.

[ohsheeT]

Well to be honest the question should have been if they weren't happy how come they just didn't leave then none of the above what happened in your house

But what's even more important is that you're carrying this for too long you're allowing it to mess your head up your heart and not believe in yourself or anybody else

you have to remember
that was him. And that was a big level of disrespect in so many different ways not everybody is like that

But you need to forget about that that's day is done and over 4 or 5 years ago

You need to get that out of your brain and out of your heart and start living life again it's too long to be holding on to that
Because it's changing you and your destiny
I understand your anger and you're hurt and your pain but you have to let it go

[Asker]

I don't understand why people won't just break up or at least communicate the issue first instead of cheating. Instead of waiting for me to eventually ditch him, he had the option to leave me at any point he wasn't happy in the relationship.
I don't mind going out on dates and have been meeting new people ever since. I just don't allow a boyfriend to move in with me anymore.

[ohsheeT]

I agree if you're not happy why put the other person through it why hurt them again by cheating when all you have to do is say I'm not happy and I don't think it's going to work and then leave but he wanted his cake and eat it too I guess the sad part is well the whole thing is sad but the really sad part is it was in your bed that would piss me off

Well I hope you're okay and I hope you let it go and I hope you smile because actually after this long of a period you have to thank him for showing you who he truly is it's just kind of sad he had to do it that way

[Daniela1982]

Whatever the reason, don't dwell on it. You got rid of the cad so move on and hope you pick someone with more fortitude the next time. Just don't bounce into a|"rebound relationship". They usually don't last anyways and it just messes up your mind more. ~😵~

[Account]

They are into that, they get a thrill. If I had to guess I would say it is similar to a fetish. Also it is convenient for them.

[Asker]

That's sick, gross. Even more disgusting Is he lied to the other woman about the house being his.

[Account]

Ι fully agree. It is disgusting.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, betrayal that bold can feel like a real-life horror plot twist!🚪😱 Your home should be your safe space, and someone messing that up is super disrespectful. Often, people cheat at home because it feels familiar, like a twisted comfort zone. It's a huge red flag and shows a lack of respect and empathy. It sounds like you made the right call by breaking ties and doing a little redecorating to reclaim your space. Keep your standards high, and next time, you'll know the signs to watch for. Keep rocking your independence! 😎🏡❤️

[AviatorTom]

Convenience... why go somewhere else?

[Crazzyyworld]

Be a single don’t get no dream be happy with family and friends, maybe sometimes fun too nothing more

[Asker]

That's what I've been doing ever since. I've gone out on a couple dates but nothing serious.

[Crazzyyworld]

Have fun enjoy your life that starts from there

[soe11]

• I don't know about everyone.
• Me and my girlfriend never ever cheat each other.
• We are open book fir for one another

[CarolinaGirl5]

Maybe he just didn't like you and you just ignored the signs. Men often show women through their actions that they're not interested in you yet many of you are too dumb, too weak, too insecure to just take a hint and go

[Anonymous]

My best advice, stay single, grow your money and enjoy 😉👌

[Asker]

That's pretty much what I've been doing for the most part. I've gone out on some dates but haven't found anything serious yet.

[Opinion Owner]

Nobody wants anything serious anymore. Just grow the money and enjoy 😎

[Anonymous]

Because it was available. The other woman doesn't sound very nice. She with your ex now?

I was more ruthless when my ex cheated and his other woman sent me shit proving he cheated.

[Asker]

No, she dumped him. She claimed he lied to her about taking a break from his relationship. He also lied to her about my house, telling her that it was his house.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe that's the case.

[Radiate143]

Because it's about them feeling more powerful than you. Sex is a vehicle

[Oldschool1981]

LOL. My wife sometimes brings guys home from the bar.

[lorenzomichael]

Probably Because it was convenient. That’s what I think. Or they just didn’t give a shit.

[Kelly6]

Because they didn’t tell other that they are married ,

[Kelly6]

Doing in hotel will make other person doubtful

[Emmytexrex]

Doesn't have respect and shame well

[Asker]

It felt more like a personal attack towards me. A cheater is already a coward for not breaking-up but to do it in your own house, that's so low.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Maybe feel the sex will be quick anyways and no need to spend money on a hotel.

[jahaims]

They don't care about their partner obviously

[kmg9150]

We all do things we shouldn't to people we care about…

[Anonymous]

Convenience or the thrill of it

[Chloe1225]

Cause they are disrespectful.

[Jmmmfi4]

BECAUSE THEY DON'T CARE