What would you do if you saw your neighbor cheating on her husband?

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exitseven · Accepted Answer

True story. When I was a teenager there was a guy in the neighborhood who was a real jerk. He would yell at us for cutting across his yard and if we were playnig basketball in the street he would call the cops. As a result we egged his house on Haloween and played other pranks on him. Myself and 2 friends went camping in this resort area. We used to sneak into a resort to take showers and use their pool. That is where we saw this guy with somebody that was not his wife. He saw us as well. He was nice as pie to us after that.

ArrowheadSW · Accepted Answer

That actually happened to a friend of mine. He had a job where he had to work out of town, and the guy who his wife was cheating with would show up on Monday morning after he left for work for the week, and he would leave on Friday before he got back. His neighbor informed him. Needless to say, he got divorced.

amandat94132 · Accepted Answer

I would have to tell him without telling him

Let's say I saw the wife with another man at 5 pm every Thursday , I would ask the
husband to be at my husband and my house at that time and look at his house at
that time This actually happened and worked Gives outright evidence

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Feel bad for her husband but not going to get involved, cause both of them could be angry at me.

Of course, that isn't to say I might accidentally video it for a bit, then oops send it anon to the husband.

Moose304 · Answer

This is not a hypothetical question for me. I have actually caught my neighbor's. His wife was actually cheating with at least 3 men that I knew of. What I did was maintain a carefully detailed diary and kept photos and videos. This went on for about a year. When an investigator for the husband's Attorney spoke to me I gave her what I had. He won the case and walked away paying her nothing. This was a military situation and the man was in the US Navy and married to another service member. He was on a ship and she was shore-based. She also got into a bit of trouble because she violated a direct order to stop. I think today he is stationed somewhere in the Pacific and she is a civilian somewhere.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Tell such husband. I am not a person who's "See no evil" that concept to me is the excuse for people who claim to be innocent but are just as bad as the doer. If someone is racist to someone you stand up for them, if someone is cheating you tell the person been cheated on.
Pretty much anyone who don't loses my respect fully. See something say something.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Mind my own business, yeah cheating really sucks but damn people need to mind their business more. I think that's actually a problem today, everybody is up in everybody's shit much.

AviatorTom · Answer

Depends on where I am when I see them. If I'm somewhere private (ex: in my house and I see them through the window) I'm probably gonna get turned on watching them and masturbate. If not in private, I'll just keep doing whatever it is I'm doing.

In any case, I'll mind my own business and not tell anyone.

Fireguy17 · Answer

try to get some pictures, and use them for blackmail and get some myself.
In reality it depends on how well I know him, if he is a buddy yes I would probably let him know, if I did not know him I wouldn't do anything.
Who knows what goes on in other couples lives.
maybe it is an arrangement between the couple so he can bang his secretary, or it is for a little extra income.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

What if it's an elaborate ruse to see if you stick your nose in their business and then it devolves into them creating an entire plot to bring you into it and ruin your own life?

I've been listening to so many conspiracies on this site for so long I think I just got excited. Lol
Honestly I'd say nothing and stay out of it if I wasn't close to them. If they're best friends I'd have an obligation. I think that's what I'd do.

modeve · Answer

I know about my neighbour but prefer not to tell her husband or anyone. Why should I poke my nose in this matter?

possumpi26 · Answer

Absolutely nothing unless I saw her having sex with her own underage son. I'd call the police on her!

Confidentandchill · Answer

I’ve experienced this. We said nothing, eventually a few neighbors did tell the guy and he divorced her

TenkRealist · Answer

I would tell her husband, preferably with evidence. No one should be with a cheater.

globetrotter22 · Answer

It’s not a good idea to get involved with neighbor drama. They live right next to you and there is no way to completely avoid them.

I would only tell the husband if I was good friends with him. However even then I would be careful.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll be snitching unless i know they are into it or if he is abusive. Anonymously.  Could be a service. Could be a bad act. Could be both.  I despise cheating.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Some adages are worth keeping :)

mstbooblover · Answer

That's none of my business. Everyone deserves some privacy, and who are we to emit a judgment? By the way, didn't some historical figure said: "Throws the first stone who never sinned." ?

Nawlins34 · Answer

I'd let her know that I know, but so long as there aren't any unreasonable complaints from that address that I, in effect, didn't see a damn thing.

RobT312 · Answer

That’s a tough one! I like my neighbors so I’d stay out of it. I’d let him find out on his own... because that always happens

KelleyNice · Answer

I hope I never do. But if I do, I'm not a tattletale. No one likes a tattletale, especially the recipient of the bearer of bad news.

Slartybartfast · Answer

My neighbors a total h*** , she will run through half a dozen guys a week, sometimes several on the same day.  He's at work a lot so when he's gone she gets busy but I think he knows it.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Do I know this husband or her? It's none of my business if I don't. Might stay that way even if I do.

PastorJohn69 · Answer

Stay out of it. There is a fence between you and your neighbor's house for a reason.

Espresso-Grande · Answer

I'd turn a blind eye. I wouldn't let involved. "The messenger is always shot"

TheLittleInnocent · Answer

Confront her first and tell her to confess to him herself. Otherwise I'll tell him.

slatyb · Answer

Nothing. No good can come to me by getting it nvolved.

ritz_ · Answer

i would not tell him directly but write a note and slip in with some proof

SlothySlob · Answer

Think to myself "What a fucking slut" and go on with my day.

spartan55 · Answer

I would make sure they saw me so they knew that I know, then leave.

Anonymous · Answer

I probably wouldn't say anything. I'm not close to any of my neighbors, and I wouldn't want to meddle in their relationship. But I'd be watching their marriage, popcorn in hand for quite a while.

vickyaustin · Answer

Theoretically, I would mind my business...

Practically , I would enjoy a / few nights with her. And may be she will be the only one who will accept all crazy things I want to do in bed😎😎😎😍.

AimeeKyle · Answer

I would keep it to myself / mind my own business. You never know, things aren’t always what / how they appear.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I would become Good Buddies with her Man and we would hang out a Lot and I would eventually let him know what was happening and I would Make sure I had proof and I would Help him figure out what course of action is best.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

My real neighbour is quite a moron. He deserves it.

sheikalana · Answer

None of my business. But if he/she was my friend I would want to tell them.

Fonzarelli · Answer

Mind my own business.  Blackmail her for some of that or money, pimp her out. Anything but tell on her like a bitch<

007kingifrit · Answer

depends. if i don't like the couple i'd tell him and break them up. if their being together in any way benefitted me i'd leave them to it

Philyouup · Answer

if she is your friend , be a friend. if not, don’t play in the neighbors kitty litter.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Not my business... He's already stupid enough if he doesn't know it..

weirdoweirdo · Answer

Literally ignore it. I dont give two fucks about that shit

Andres77 · Answer

It depends if I knew the kind of relationship they had.

Anonymous · Answer

I would let the neighbor know because in all honesty if you don't it's just an asshole move you wouldn't want to be cheated on and if you were you would want to know. Now whether or not anything is done about it is not my problem

Shamalien · Answer

I’m not normally a tattle tale, but in this situation I don’t think I could keep my mouth shut

888theGreat · Answer

When I was a kid , the woman across the street was having an affair and nothing

motownplayer2000 · Answer

If we close. I’ll let him know. If not, then I won’t get into the business

Straight2thepoint · Answer

Not ur business. Unless u want it to be, then go ahead. Get involved.

Better_off_here · Answer

not my business, not my place to say anything. he will find out sooner or later anyway. cheaters always get caught sooner or later.

Jhonrembo36 · Answer

Better not do nothing if you not really good friends of them.🤔

anylolone · Answer

The cuck is the last to know and the last to accept the truth.

TickleMe4ForFun · Answer

3 simple words... "Snitches get stitches."

Jerre · Answer

Depends on how well I knew them. If she was attractive, I might just want to fuck her.

Pito123 · Answer

If I know her husband I will send him a message anonymously.

AKA18 · Answer

I wouldn’t tell her husband, but I’d talk to her if we were good friends. But I wouldn’t get involved unless I were really good friends with her.

TheAfrikan · Answer

I shut up since that is not my business, until when he finds out about her.

tbradley · Answer

id keep my mouth shut and stay clear dont wanna get caught up in all that

NathanT626 · Answer

I would tell her husband unless she gives me something in return for my silence

deandre09 · Answer

I would say keep going cause women ain't shit but hoes

Alexjws1 · Answer

Enjoy the show, join them, or act like it wasn't seen

Titlover01 · Answer

If she’s cute and I’m single see if I can get some action. 😊

roseline_ · Answer

I will pretend like I didn't see them.

Anonymous · Answer

Try to join in or see if I can eat her after he leaves

Anonymous · Answer

Record it in case there's a time you need to get them to leave you alone

Caliguy88 · Answer

Probably try to bang her.

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