I would have to tell him without telling him
Let's say I saw the wife with another man at 5 pm every Thursday , I would ask the
husband to be at my husband and my house at that time and look at his house at
that time This actually happened and worked Gives outright evidence
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True story. When I was a teenager there was a guy in the neighborhood who was a real jerk. He would yell at us for cutting across his yard and if we were playnig basketball in the street he would call the cops. As a result we egged his house on Haloween and played other pranks on him. Myself and 2 friends went camping in this resort area. We used to sneak into a resort to take showers and use their pool. That is where we saw this guy with somebody that was not his wife. He saw us as well. He was nice as pie to us after that.
That actually happened to a friend of mine. He had a job where he had to work out of town, and the guy who his wife was cheating with would show up on Monday morning after he left for work for the week, and he would leave on Friday before he got back. His neighbor informed him. Needless to say, he got divorced.
Feel bad for her husband but not going to get involved, cause both of them could be angry at me.
Of course, that isn't to say I might accidentally video it for a bit, then oops send it anon to the husband.
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This is not a hypothetical question for me. I have actually caught my neighbor's. His wife was actually cheating with at least 3 men that I knew of. What I did was maintain a carefully detailed diary and kept photos and videos. This went on for about a year. When an investigator for the husband's Attorney spoke to me I gave her what I had. He won the case and walked away paying her nothing. This was a military situation and the man was in the US Navy and married to another service member. He was on a ship and she was shore-based. She also got into a bit of trouble because she violated a direct order to stop. I think today he is stationed somewhere in the Pacific and she is a civilian somewhere.
Tell such husband. I am not a person who's "See no evil" that concept to me is the excuse for people who claim to be innocent but are just as bad as the doer. If someone is racist to someone you stand up for them, if someone is cheating you tell the person been cheated on.
Pretty much anyone who don't loses my respect fully. See something say something.Mind my own business, yeah cheating really sucks but damn people need to mind their business more. I think that's actually a problem today, everybody is up in everybody's shit much.
Depends on where I am when I see them. If I'm somewhere private (ex: in my house and I see them through the window) I'm probably gonna get turned on watching them and masturbate. If not in private, I'll just keep doing whatever it is I'm doing.
In any case, I'll mind my own business and not tell anyone.try to get some pictures, and use them for blackmail and get some myself.
In reality it depends on how well I know him, if he is a buddy yes I would probably let him know, if I did not know him I wouldn't do anything.
Who knows what goes on in other couples lives.
maybe it is an arrangement between the couple so he can bang his secretary, or it is for a little extra income.What if it's an elaborate ruse to see if you stick your nose in their business and then it devolves into them creating an entire plot to bring you into it and ruin your own life?
I've been listening to so many conspiracies on this site for so long I think I just got excited. Lol
Honestly I'd say nothing and stay out of it if I wasn't close to them. If they're best friends I'd have an obligation. I think that's what I'd do.I know about my neighbour but prefer not to tell her husband or anyone. Why should I poke my nose in this matter?
Absolutely nothing unless I saw her having sex with her own underage son. I'd call the police on her!
I’ve experienced this. We said nothing, eventually a few neighbors did tell the guy and he divorced her
It’s not a good idea to get involved with neighbor drama. They live right next to you and there is no way to completely avoid them.
I would only tell the husband if I was good friends with him. However even then I would be careful.I'll be snitching unless i know they are into it or if he is abusive. Anonymously.
Could be a service. Could be a bad act. Could be both.
I despise cheating.Some adages are worth keeping :)
That's none of my business. Everyone deserves some privacy, and who are we to emit a judgment? By the way, didn't some historical figure said: "Throws the first stone who never sinned." ?
I would tell her husband, preferably with evidence. No one should be with a cheater.
I'd let her know that I know, but so long as there aren't any unreasonable complaints from that address that I, in effect, didn't see a damn thing.
That’s a tough one! I like my neighbors so I’d stay out of it. I’d let him find out on his own... because that always happens
I hope I never do. But if I do, I'm not a tattletale. No one likes a tattletale, especially the recipient of the bearer of bad news.
My neighbors a total h*** , she will run through half a dozen guys a week, sometimes several on the same day.
He's at work a lot so when he's gone she gets busy but I think he knows it.Do I know this husband or her? It's none of my business if I don't. Might stay that way even if I do.
Stay out of it. There is a fence between you and your neighbor's house for a reason.
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