Title makes me sound insecure. That's not the case and there's a lot more to it.
So the first floor neighbor has a tendency to be fucking ignorant and call the cops for drama she has caused with others. Despite this, I always remained civil with her because she never started shit with me up until about a month ago. She punched a guy in the face, who then full on throttled her in defense. Of course my husband and I ran to her aid while she was on the ground. She calls the cops on the guy. During this her 16yo son tried getting my husband arrested for having a gun on him. The neighbor took her sons side and threatened to kill me. Fun times.
I haven't spoken to her since. However, if she sees my husband leaving for work, coming home from work, leaving to go run errands, etc, she runs outside in a t-shirt with no pants or lingerie (like teddy bear nighties) or really skimpy shorts and a tube top. she's a 50 something yo woman.
So today was no different. My husband ran to the store to grab dinner. She waited outside for his return. During this she actually went inside to change. She was wearing Jean's and a sweater. When she came back outside she was wearing a sports bra and leggings. He texts me when he is home to help carry up groceries.
When I get downstairs she is leaning into my husbands window saying "I can help you with those if you would like" while swinging her hips side to side. Now, I'm chuckling to myself because it is quite a hilarious sight. But I say to her "Your skimpy clothing isn't going to make him want you, ya know? I was in sweats and a stained baggy t-shirt when he met me at 19. Maybe work on your approach, sweets." I then winked at her. She ran inside shouting apologies.
She doesn't know this but my husband and I are actually swingers. He has told me multiple times she makes him uncomfortable, which is rare. Was I wrong to call her out? She hasn't been back outside since.
So the first floor neighbor has a tendency to be fucking ignorant and call the cops for drama she has caused with others. Despite this, I always remained civil with her because she never started shit with me up until about a month ago. She punched a guy in the face, who then full on throttled her in defense. Of course my husband and I ran to her aid while she was on the ground. She calls the cops on the guy. During this her 16yo son tried getting my husband arrested for having a gun on him. The neighbor took her sons side and threatened to kill me. Fun times.
I haven't spoken to her since. However, if she sees my husband leaving for work, coming home from work, leaving to go run errands, etc, she runs outside in a t-shirt with no pants or lingerie (like teddy bear nighties) or really skimpy shorts and a tube top. she's a 50 something yo woman.
So today was no different. My husband ran to the store to grab dinner. She waited outside for his return. During this she actually went inside to change. She was wearing Jean's and a sweater. When she came back outside she was wearing a sports bra and leggings. He texts me when he is home to help carry up groceries.
When I get downstairs she is leaning into my husbands window saying "I can help you with those if you would like" while swinging her hips side to side. Now, I'm chuckling to myself because it is quite a hilarious sight. But I say to her "Your skimpy clothing isn't going to make him want you, ya know? I was in sweats and a stained baggy t-shirt when he met me at 19. Maybe work on your approach, sweets." I then winked at her. She ran inside shouting apologies.
She doesn't know this but my husband and I are actually swingers. He has told me multiple times she makes him uncomfortable, which is rare. Was I wrong to call her out? She hasn't been back outside since.
