Do men actually believe that no one will find a woman attractive after them?

[KittygosMeoWW]

For perspective I’m referring to the men that state no one is going to love or be attracted to a woman who was done wrong in a relationship. Whether it be because she’s a mother, gained weight, doesn’t quite look like her prime. lol do y’all really believe that or is it something you’d like to wish into existence?

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Furyballsstorm lol guess this triggered you so much you needed to block me immediately after you posted your opinion

[Apple1996]

Those men are so dumb. There are women who are mothers, overweight and past the age of 25 constantly getting into relationships/having options for realtionships if they choose to date.

They just want to shame women because they hate themselves and most likely have a shit personality that turns women away from them so they get pissy about women finding love when they can't.

[Finchie40]

If they do , they are complete morons , they are mainly just talking shit , trying to hurt her feelings , because some people are just assholes that way , when things don’t go their way or when they want to make excuses for their own selfish actions , they point fingers before pointing fingers at themselves first , just ignore them and don’t allow it to bother you , just distance yourself from them and don’t waste anymore of your time on them

[slatyb]

It's sour grapes -- they say this to lessen the pain of rejection. They are usually very wrong. My ex-wife thought the same about me. Now I'm happily married to a woman ten times nice and ten times as attractive. Do they actually believe it? Who can tell. My ex-wife was a narcissist who lied constantly. Did she believe her lies? Who knows? Who cares?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't think that's really true. Sure, there's some guys who don't want to date a woman with children, but that woman would find someone else who does want to date her. On the last one, everybody ages and won't look like their prime. I have young looks in genetics but even I'll look old someday too. Aging is something we can't change.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle some clarity here! 🌟 That notion is like believing unicorns roam free among us—fantastical and far from reality! People evolve, looks change, and experiences shape us, but attraction isn't a one-time ticket. Plenty of folks out there are ready to appreciate someone for who they are, especially when self-confidence shines through. So, let those outdated beliefs vanish and embrace the true magic of attraction! 😉

[ohsheeT]

That sounds like a very funny man that is the most stupidest thing I've ever heard and for A man to even think that way is crazy

It's just another form of manipulation

[Hellraiser1984]

I don't. It's just most men were raised that if they don't date a 10 they are losers. Women that are a 10 are usually narcissistic and gold diggers. I can't have kids so having a step child to me would be a fun thing. Men are usually complete a holes to begin with. I'm sorry we suck so much. I've strived to be the opposite of the a hole sexist, bigoted, perverted, alcoholic guys like I was raised around.

[Still-alive]

Those dudes are lost and are getting this propaganda from the manosphere types. i'd avoid them and leave them to themselves.

[Still-alive]

That caroloinagirl is likely a dude. i been tracking his/her activity for awhile now. they keep repeating manosphere bs and always take then mans side. i would ignore them if i were you. i already tried reporting them.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Oh absolutely a troll and not a good one.

[Still-alive]

Yup. admin slacking at their jobs yet again smh

[disappoint3d]

I will answer your question with a question: why is is that women like this (single moms, overweight etc) still expect to pull top quality men? I already know the answer. But maybe if women had more realistic expectations then there wouldn't be quite as many sour dudes. Both sides have caused this problem. Not just one.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Everyone’s “top quality” looks behaves differently. I’m realistic and having said that I know my value and have not dated according to rational choices I’ve only previously dated based off of emotional impulses. The one man who has said this to me in no way reflected positive attributes in a relationship or as a human being. So, why is it that low moral/trashy scum of human beings specifically men because I only date men now lol think this is ok to say when they themselves have low worth?

[disappoint3d]

He said that to you because he probably sucks. a lot of people suck.

[disappoint3d]

But to add to that last statement almost everyone also thinks they are "one of the good ones" too, when they actually suck. So if you're someone who "knows your worth" but find yourself attracting men who say things like that then maybe it's time for some self re-examination.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Oh lol I have done that’s why I say that now

[7Phoenix7]

The delusional ones do tend to think that way... Let's let them continue to think that...

While we constantly reject offers lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

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[bowenw]

Probably some to as a way to try to convince women to stay in toxic relationships with them.

[lightbulb27]

if they believe it, they also believe the tooth fairy delivers marshmellows.

[ProbablyClueless]

Some certainly feel that way, but not all. Not even most, thankfully.

[Surely]

I more look at the person who she selected to do her wrong. Since she has little control over crows feet and gravity.

[hahahmm]

No. So you have a knack for dating guys who tell you this? You might want to talk to a therapist. There could be an addiction at work here.

[KrakenAttackin]

No reasonable man has ever believed that some other man won't fuck his ex.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Whoever the man was felt you were unattractive is the point. Doesn't sound like he was speaking universally. He was just talking about you

[KittygosMeoWW]

No he was speaking about multiple women

[CarolinaGirl5]

Are you talking about a man you're talking to or just men saying this in general?

[KittygosMeoWW]

A man that has said this to multiple women and I’m one of them lol

[CarolinaGirl5]

Then he doesn't find you attractive. He's talking directly to you. I'd move on

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol I broke up with him that’s when he said that

[CarolinaGirl5]

Doesn't matter when he said it. The fact is he's been feeling this way about you all along so basically he left you. You're just now acknowledging he didn't find you attractive. Men usually leave the relationship not physically but mentally once turned off.

[KittygosMeoWW]

No it was something he said to try to make me feel less so I would settle for him. So it’s not a FACT and if he really found me that ugly and unworthy he wouldn’t have dragged me along to his work and friend outings. You’re obviously just trying to argue with no context

[CarolinaGirl5]

People don't say shit out of the blue. He's felt this way about you the entire time. You know this but won't acknowledge it. He didn't and doesn't find you attractive. You left why? Because you weren't being treated as you wanted. Why he didn't treat you as you wanted? Answer: he doesn't find u attractive and now has the courage to tell u.

[CarolinaGirl5]

I know it hurts but he doesn't see you as attractive

[Bklynbadboy12]

I hope not cause if they believe that they're gonna be soooooo disappointed 😉😉😉😉

[Silentsports21]

Depends on the women but its good for women to learn the hard way sometimes as long as its not fatal make their selection of another man more intelligent

[LiamJHayden]

Some do, generally those with very little real world experience.

[NathanDavis]

those are not men, though...

[jahaims]

Simps obviously exist

[Staximus]

No, that's nonsense

[CuriousMufuxka]

I sure don't.

[Jerre]

This an certainly does NOT believe that.

[Jerre]

@KittygosMeoWW Thank you for the Like