Do you feel attraction can build from personality and vibes, or attraction comes first then personality and vibes, for a new relationship?

[jmh82]

If you met someone new, no matter how, and you clicked in many ways; could an attraction build later down the road leading to a relationship, or would you have to have a physical attraction first before getting to know them, before something could happen between you?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Semantically speaking, attraction is built upon something intangible, so, charm or vibes yes. That's for the fun of words. The aesthetically pleasing part is fun too because when charm starts to produce its effect then... I am being hypnotized. In that case, the fate of my aesthetical vision is drown in subjectivity.

So, yes, I've experienced multiple times this magic where I was not aesthetically pleased nor repulsed, and yet, once charm operated then I became aesthetically pleased.

[exitseven]

I met a girl in college that was really only average looking but she was quirky and different. We used to hang out a lot and the more i did the better looking ahe got. I really fell in love with her

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Nikki1989]

Kindness and compassion
Respect
Confidence
Intelligence
Sense of humor
Honesty and integrity
Good communication skills
Shared interests and values

Tick all these boxes and you have it made.

[Abbycado]

I have to find him attractive to go on a date but personality is way more important

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I believe that attraction can be like a surprise party—unexpected and exciting! Personality and vibes can totally light the spark even when physical attraction isn't the opening act. You don’t need immediate fireworks; sometimes, admiration for someone’s character can build up those heartbeats. Getting to know someone’s essence can be the secret ingredient to falling head over heels. Embrace the mixture of personality and vibes creating attraction—it can lead to the sweetest sort of love story! 😘✨

[ProbablyClueless]

Attraction can totally come from personality and vibes.