What do guys want in a partner?

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Oh! BESIDES my dick?
Well, I'd like her to be 5' 9", dark hair and eyes (she MUST have eyes!!), a great sense of humour, very playful and sexy, a neat British accent, lots of undying love to give, preferably no trust issues but, we can work on that, LOVES to hug & snuggle a lot and knows everything there is to know about Wankel rotary engines!

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

There are a few simple things. Respect, loyalty, love, and caring. The three main things that will keep any man happy.  Feed him Fuck him And respect him.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the ultimate mystery, am I right? 😄 From my expert flirting and relationship perspective, let's unravel this! Most guys desire someone who makes them feel appreciated and understood. They crave good communication, laughter that lights up the room, and that magical spark of connection. A mix of independence and togetherness sprinkled with some common interests is usually perfect. Of course, trust and mutual support are the foundation. Basically, be their partner in crime and keep those red flags at bay! 😉 Love is a beautiful dance! 💃🕺

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Finchie40 · Answer

Respect , honesty and loyalty , a girl that makes him her top priority over everyone else , over her friends’ especially, if she chooses her friends over him , she better be prepared to be single again , If he is choosing his friends’ over you , you should walk other way as well. A loving caring guy only wants his partner by his side that has his back the same way he will have hers , he doesn’t have to hold her hand at all times but he needs to feel respected, if he isn’t feeling respected , he will be open to feeling respected by another girl. Always include your partner before making decisions, don’t just assume you already know the answer , I hear people in relationships all the time say , Oh my partner won’t care , or my partner isn’t like that? You aren’t a fucking mind reader , so don’t just assume you know how they feel about something , you have to remember , your single days are gone the second you commit to someone , if your friend invites you to go away with them , talk to your partner first before making a decision, . How would you like lor feel if your partner told you , oh by the way I am going away with the guys’ for a week on a vacation and it’s just the guys’ Not giving you a choice on whether you are ok with it or not? The respectful thing for him to do is come to you and say , Hey baby the guys’ invited me on a trip , do you mind if I go? Whether you say yes or no , it still gives you an option. Respect goes a long way , when a guy isn’t feeling respected , he will more than likely kick you to the curb where you belong. Sadly a lot of females’ do not know how to be respectful and that’s why she ends up single or cheated on. Her friends’ should never come over him , the second she chooses her friends’ over him is the second he will start doing the same to her. Mark my words. I was in this situation plenty of times , and witnessed this happening plenty of times with other couples. It isn’t insecurities and it isn’t jealousy, it comes down to respect for each other. Wear your partners’ shoes the same way you want them wearing yours and I guarantee you will experience a long lasting relationship, instead of being lied to and cheated on. If you are just dating someone , then you don’t have any strings attached , you only have strings attached the second you commit to someone and make it official , Why I only do FWB’s with girls’ with some strings attached and no longer rush into a commitment because most females’ I have met through the years don’t really know what they want , they think they do , but they don’t , FWB’s with some strings attached eliminates the feelings of insecurities and jealousy as long as you both are on the same page with things , because my ass isn’t going to commit to a girl that doesn’t respect me the same way I respect her , I had my fair share of relationships that all ended because of selfishness , a girl that only wanted things her way that expected me to do for her but she could t do the same for me. FWB’s with some strong attached eliminates that from happening , we both agree we only have sex with each other but we are open to dating others’ if we choose to , giving us both time to really get to know each other before making the big decision of being committed together. So far it has been working especially these days with how people are these days. Selfish

HawkPerception · Answer

Me personally?

Love and support. Love and loyalty as unwavering as a mother's. Chemistry in terms of similarities... similar views, interests, sense of humor, vision of the future, sexual compatibility, love languages, etc. Support in rough times. Not just calling it quits any time there's any little disagreement or conflict in the relationship.

A girl that listens and is patient, is kind to everyone (not just me), prioritizes family, but also makes me one of her priorities, etc.

Simslover92 · Answer

Loving, kind, funny, nerdy, intelligent, charismatic, and loyal.  Oh wait you said guys... Someone hot, independent, loyal, kind, intelligent, and positive.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Intelligent, kind, gentle soul, cute face, body at least average, and at least likes sex.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well about the only thing I want in her is me I mean I guess if we could get some toys but yeah I mean just me LOL

Unit1 · Answer

For me? Respect, deredere (lovey dovey), mutual care and intimacu, togetherness and lack of both drama and disharmony.

Men's life is war. Bring them peace and tranquility. Not more battles and fights. Men are tired.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Someone who I can rely on to live up to her word. Someone who is honest and an actually good listener. Someone who doesn't talk about me to other people. Someone who appreciates and acknowledges my time.

Honestly, if you are capable of actually listening and living up to your word (like you don't just randomly say shit you don't have any intention of actually doing), you'll be ahead of 80% of women. Beyond that, if you're also someone with a sense of integrity and you aren't an actively unpleasant person to be around, you can clear another 15%

HighValue · Answer

Cute face, athletic or slim build, no tattoos, good morals, no promiscuous past, no contact with any ex, no kids from past relationships, no drugs or alcohol, fair to me in the relationship, loyal, doesn't post any provocative/revealing pictures online, no new opposite gender friends, affectionate, not past 30, enjoys gaming with me and enjoys physical outdoor activities too.

Cripplingkingship · Answer

I am not looking for anything special in a girl, just someone a I have chemistry and we get on. I don't want a girl who is always moaning and complaining all the time, I will leave asap if she is a moaner.

A guys are simple, they are not complicated creatures. However the wrong guy, will just want you for sex.

Nikki1989 · Answer

My go-to list. Kindness and compassion 
 Respect 
 Confidence 
 Intelligence 
 Sense of humor 
 Honesty and integrity 
 Good communication skills 
 Shared interests and values Hopefully, most men want the same.

Anonymous · Answer

Someone to lead me, handle my emotions, make decisions for me. Just be my rock. I can be their rock sometimes too, but I'm more of a supporter then a leader :D

MrPiercedD · Answer

It will be easier if I start writing from immediate dealbrakers for me:

if she have kids or is pregnant
if she doesn't want to have kids
too much weight
not kinky
low sex drive
trust issues
lack of make up (just using a lipstick it's not a make up)
if she prefers pants over mini skirt
drugs usage
health problems (including mental, PTSD, etc)
supporting movements like BLM, antifa, etc
actively engaging with LGBTQ+ communities
she is older than me
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Anything below it's a plus but lack of it is not a dealbreaker:

slutty dress code
really heavy make up on daily basis
piercings
very high sex drive (need to have sex at least few times a day)
not being shy
supporting 1950s lifestyle and patriarchy

RavVid · Answer

Well the feminine virtues. Hasn't changed much in millenniums.

I put great stock in her being genuinely nice cause I think that is an umbrella of a number of desirable traits. It is also verifiable on short acquaintance.

I am adding optimistic now. You can make a naturally unhappy girl, happy but only for a short period. Eventually a naturally unhappy girl will be unhappy with you.

Staximus · Answer

Old fashioned but independent and non-religious at the same time (I know that's a tall order). She has to be street smart and have common sense, so I don't have to worry about her all the time (which I will do anyway). A woman that will still tell a guy who she finds attractive to stop flirting with her and get lost instead of flirting back. A woman who wants to go on road trips and randomly stop to look at old cars, old buildings, historical stuff, big trees and scenic overlooks.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

You know well what i want in a partner owlee birdee, did you really get married?

Grond21 · Answer

Love, recognition of my burdens and sacrifices, respect, kindness, good wife, good mother, adores sexual intimacy, adventurous, knows how to resolve conflict, seeks to grow

paledreams · Answer

I want a submissive petite pale woman in her 20s who"s fit to average, and humble and cool like a "cool chick" without the goth, emo or "issues" - no tatts, no gapes, no vapes, ha 😅 😅 👀 100 percent clean woman

Ironco · Answer

Someone who listens, easy to have a conversation with, let's me think of nothing, time away from each other when needed, likes to share the house work and cooking, and yes, kinky sex.

Shiprex · Answer

Loyalty, commitment and equality of effort and time.

Cutea · Answer

Love, know comprime, commucation, able to surprise you. And this is vice versa to keep a partner

SolitarySolace · Answer

You say "guys" plural as if we all want a partner. I'm a guy and I don't. That's not fair to group us all together like that

Pterodon · Answer

Equal partner and companion with shared interests

LiamJHayden · Answer

1. An actual partner as opposed to a leech. 2. Enough of a backbone to tell me when I am being stupid.

ehatsham_hussain · Answer

Loyalty, and understanding and love.. Same things what women wans in their partners. Male and female are emotionally same

Jennz6 · Answer

Housekeeper and a cook

kaucky1 · Answer

To be hermaphrodite or trans or wear a strap-on or more girls at same time

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Sanity, kindness, stable mood, doesn't bring chaos into my life, and decent looking.

OddBeMe · Answer

A best friend. Thats hot af.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

One word... comfort.

virtualwasp · Answer

Cute handsome mensch

Anonymous · Answer

Some who can give me a good kick in the nuts for my S&M fetish.

Chillguy53 · Answer

A good vagina

jahaims · Answer

Different people want different things

shortster · Answer

Honesty, kindness, and loyalty

Strongballs38 · Answer

For me ofcourse some fun about my main part.

es20490446e · Answer

Nicey.

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