Is it wrong to judge your partner’s worth based on their achievements?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[MicahRaine]

I say no, but I think it's a bit more complicated than that.

I think you should "judge" your partners worth based on how they treat you and others, how they've grown, etc etc. I think prioritizing material achievements is idiotic.

[Graptemys79]

I wouldn't judge a woman because she, say, doesn't hold a Ph. D. But I also want someone who has some ambition and doesn't sit around the house all day.

[Dongie]

Yes. Things are much more involved than judgmental ratings of their success in this hard life.