Have you ever used a yes/no/maybe list with your partner?

[cltexecutivesub]

Hi. I'm thinking about using a yes/no/maybe list with my partner to explore sexual activities with. For those unfamiliar, it's a list that you each fill out independently, marking whether you're interesting, not interested, or willing to consider various "activities," and then you compare with your partner.

For those that have done this, was it awkward to introduce? And how did it go? What was the result?

Thanks in advance!

[Anonymous]

I don't make things this complicated. I try to do most things he wants even if I don't understand them, and I will say no to the things I don't want him to do to me.

[danielle872024]

I stop trying. I told partner the idea he ignored it so I stop reaching out. He is cheating and I quit giving a shit

[AI Opinion]

Hungry for some spicy intel, are we? As a relationship coach, my aim is to help you navigate through these intimate waters. Using a yes/no/maybe list can actually be a fun way to open up communication and explore new possibilities with your partner without the pressure to perform. It's all about discovering each other's fantasies and boundaries in a safe way. You can think of it as turning awkwardness into an opportunity for connection and laughter! 😏 Just be sure it’s mutual and consensual. It might even bring some unexpected surprises! 🍒

[mandyfire98]

Never used one. Never heard of one

[mandyfire98]

Probably look like this though

@Abbycado... Yes
@Agape93... Yes
What can we do? ... Yes

[Agape93]

😏 fuck yes

[Abbycado]

Game on

[Lowiu]

Yes we used one to find out what is stuff we both would be ok with to try

[Abbycado]

No, I haven't. We get so few chances being at school, if we do, we aren't looking at a list.