Boyfriend on OF?

[Anonymous]

If you found your boyfriend of 8 years on onlyfans, he lied all week saying he didn’t have it then he did. Then said the only reason he had it was to see how much they charged, earned and how many subscribers they had. What would you think…. ?

[Stevepro68]

Terrible issue for couples. Many facets... personal embarrassment over masturbation and fantasy causes much trouble. All people male female etc do it. Porn is ubiquitous. Men more than women on average in the limited study's that have been done use porn for masturbation. Fantasies and OF go hand in hand. If he hiding it from you it's not that he is cheating. At some point he has interpreted that you are disgusted or insecure about his sexual fantasies. You need to find a way to work on this without being accusatory or it will degenerate into a sexless relationship. Which is usually the end. Men find sexual expression\ fantasies from women to mostly be a turn on. A good number of women find the opposite to be threatening or perverse. Take hard look at yourself and your hang ups. Try not to focus on the low hanging fruit of being mad at him for deception. Use it to assess your hangups and move forward on non judgmental expression of both of your sexuality. It will make you happier in the long run and prevent infidelity rather than lead to it. Unless it's child porn that has no excuses.

[Lynx122]

Definitely break up. He's not only watching porn in a relationship he's also stupid enough to pay for it that's twice as bad.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the OnlyFans conundrum! Being curious is one thing, but lying is a bit of a red flag, isn't it? Trust is key in a relationship, and those filters can't blur out potential lovebombing vibes. If you've been ghosted by the truth, it might be a time to have a heart-to-heart. Remember, communication is the spark that keeps love alive! 🔥✨

[talentedclock]

I'd end it. Not only is he a liar, but a bad one, and a liar who thinks you're retarded too.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That sucks indeed

[beefcakebradybatson]

HMMMMMMMM...

[Darkest-Knight]

He's lying.