It doesn't matter to me, cheating is cheating, there is no forgiveness.
1 yI have learn if a men loves you he will always stay loyal. If he doesn't love you he will cheat no matter what what. You just can not forced aen to love you. I learn that the hard way.
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@alwayreckles93 It's not quite that simple. Some men will cheat even if they love a girl. Others will be faithful even if they don't love her.
There are no simple rules here. - 1 y
@AnonAndrew What makes think that? My ex hated my guys and cheated on me.
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@alwayreckles93 Sorry to hear that. :(
Yes, some men will cheat on a woman whether he loves her or not. Other won't. It's individual. - 1 y
@AnonAndrew Thanks for your generous kind words. I learn a good lesson during that time period.
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@alwayreckles93 You're welcome. :)
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1 yCheating is cheating. I would still leave the relationship.
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As a relationship coach, I'm all about helping you find what works best for you. Cheating, regardless of gender, often breaches trust and creates deep wounds. You're spot-on to feel it's a relationship red flag. Trust is crucial, and when it's broken, it can be rough to rebuild. Stay true to what feels right for you and prioritize your emotional well-being. Love can't bloom in a garden of lies, right? 🌼
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1 yI think the question should be would if make you feel a certain way if it were the same sex? Because if you just narrow it down to cheating then yeah that is always wrong but would it sting less? Maybe... not much you can do if they are attracted to the same sex. Probably more awkward then hurtful.
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1 yI’m the same way though I do eventually forgive someone. Not to the point of letting them back into my life but they aren’t worth hating. Having any feelings positive or negative is feeding them attention they don’t deserve.
I’m not saying it won’t take time to get there. Definitely grief but I agree. Cheating is cheating and you’re never getting another chance once you cross that line.
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1 yIt doesn't matter if it's with the same gender. That's still cheating and it would be over.
50 Reply 4.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Cheating is cheating so yes it’s a problem unless the other partner doesn’t care
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1 yOk I’ve always been curious with chicks but my husband let it be known he was against and would consider it cheating. When I was young when we were dating I made out with a friend and he said he didn’t like it and not to do it again. Shortly thereafter I was playing a stupid drinking game with friends and a hot friend of mine on a dare decided to strip down to our bra and thong and make out. My husband who was my boyfriend at the time took me aside and said to never do it again. Or he’d take it as cheating and we’d be done. So I never did it again
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1 yI cheat on my boyfriend every day but partly it's because he loves it and partly because I can't say no to the biggest dick Blacks. I wouldn 't forgive him if he cheated on me with any gender as I don't have the compatible fetish that makes it the right thing to do. He knows I'd dump him if he even explored it. I have given him some experiences with girlfriends but it's always around shared fetishes and always I'm running it so it's okay.
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1 yNo idea why it would matter. In general when it comes to almost all things gender/sex is irrelevant unless it's a very specific situation where gender itself would play a big part (can't think of any right now). But yeah, cheating is cheating. When someone does something bad whatever gender they are doesn't matter.
00 Reply687 opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's still cheating, and I wouldn't like it even if she wasn't in a relationship with me.
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1 yCheating is cheating but there's two other concerns here
One, if he's cheating on you with the same gender you can't compete.
Two if the person didn't disclose hint say that they were bi, strike number two20 Reply 9.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Cheating is cheating. The gender has nothing to do with it.
40 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I would say it would be more difficult to deal with if she cheated with another man. If she cheats with a woman, she may be realizing she is bi or a lesbian.
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1 yYes. Kinda worse tbh because not only he lied about being loyal to you but also about who he's attracted to.
40 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Cheating is Cheating... Gender simply doesn't come into the equation... Full Stop.
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1 yCheating is cheating, although cheating with another man is more insulting. Its happened to me before. I've also been benched before because whoever I was talking to had many suitors so to speak
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1 yIt is cheating. It is a 100% end of the relationship and they would instantly be dead to me.
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1 yNot if I knew going into the relationship she was bisexual but if I came into the relationship thinking I'm dating a straight woman ans she cheats on me with another woman then yeah that's a problem for me
10 Reply Yep, because that same sex can take her heart just as quick or quicker than the opposite sex or they wouldn't have done it!! I can do for my partner every sex act that they can together, all but I don't have what she has between my leg's for her to munch on mine is different but I still feel the same, the person is a threat to take her away permanently
00 ReplyThat’s cheating and it doesn’t matter what gender he is with
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1 ycheating is cheating. i don't care what the gender of the person she cheated with is.
10 Reply 6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It probably wouldn't be a problem. I would like to see it, but it would be ok if she would rather not.
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1 yLike you said, cheating is cheating. To me that's a one-and-done.
10 Reply Cheating is cheating. Unless you’s have permission but it’s with Communication.
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1 yIt's not really a problem if she cheats on me with the opposite gender.
00 ReplyGuys don't tend to care much about girl on girl, especially if they get a FFM out of it.
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1 yIts not as bad if she cheats with the opposite gender.
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1 yAs it would be if she cheated with another chap. Cheating's cheating regardless of gender.
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1 yif she had proposed a threesome instead, I'd have been totally okay with it 🙂
10 Reply7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Maybe if I could have a threesome with the two of them I would be okay with it.
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1 yhis hiding hia gayness from me is a bigger problem than cheating
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1 yAbsolutely 💯 % as you say cheating is cheating
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yYes, it would make me feel like I turned them gay (I know people don't turn gay and are born that way).
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1 yI don't have a problem if my partner cheat regardless of gender, so long as she doesn't get pregnant
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1 yOpenly bisexual women tend to be unfaithful. Eventually she will have another guys cock in her.
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1 yYes very much so. Plus they could pick up HIV from a same sex encounter.
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Well thank goodness you can't pick up hiv from a hetero encounter...
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@DrPepper12 you can it's just with a same sex encounter it's a higher risk. Especially with male/male encounters.
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1 yProbably worse than with the opposite gender!
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yIt would be a problem unless I can watch them, and maybe join them.
00 ReplyIt's a problem if a person can't make decisions and stick to their commitments.
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1 yCHEAT IS CHEAT
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m 1 ycheating is bad... period
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1 yYes. That'd be gross as well.
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1 yCheating is cheating. Have some worth and move on - they are dead to you.
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1 yI really wish this app would remove kids
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1 yYes, cheating is cheating.
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1 yWell, it's still cheating.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yI agree with you 100%.
10 ReplyCheating is cheating !
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1 yYes that’s a problem
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1 yIt’s definitly a sin
00 ReplyIs allowable cheating an acceptable answer?
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I agree, 1000%
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yNot if she let's me watch.
00 Reply5.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Duh.
10 ReplyYou are correct!
10 ReplyHell yes!
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yYep.
10 ReplyAre you a lesbian..
02 ReplyNo, why do you ask?
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