Is it a problem if your partner cheats on you with the same gender?

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It doesn't matter to me, cheating is cheating, there is no forgiveness.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

I have learn if a men loves you he will always stay loyal. If he doesn't love you he will cheat no matter what what. You just can not forced aen to love you. I learn that the hard way.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Cheating is cheating. I would still leave the relationship.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, I'm all about helping you find what works best for you. Cheating, regardless of gender, often breaches trust and creates deep wounds. You're spot-on to feel it's a relationship red flag. Trust is crucial, and when it's broken, it can be rough to rebuild. Stay true to what feels right for you and prioritize your emotional well-being. Love can't bloom in a garden of lies, right? 🌼

coachTanthony · Answer

I think the question should be would if make you feel a certain way if it were the same sex? Because if you just narrow it down to cheating then yeah that is always wrong but would it sting less? Maybe... not much you can do if they are attracted to the same sex. Probably more awkward then hurtful.

Summeroflove · Answer

I’m the same way though I do eventually forgive someone. Not to the point of letting them back into my life but they aren’t worth hating. Having any feelings positive or negative is feeding them attention they don’t deserve.

I’m not saying it won’t take time to get there. Definitely grief but I agree. Cheating is cheating and you’re never getting another chance once you cross that line.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

It doesn't matter if it's with the same gender. That's still cheating and it would be over.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cheating is cheating so yes it’s a problem unless the other partner doesn’t care

Jimmerjammermama83 · Answer

Ok I’ve always been curious with chicks but my husband let it be known he was against and would consider it cheating. When I was young when we were dating I made out with a friend and he said he didn’t like it and not to do it again. Shortly thereafter I was playing a stupid drinking game with friends and a hot friend of mine on a dare decided to strip down to our bra and thong and make out. My husband who was my boyfriend at the time took me aside and said to never do it again. Or he’d take it as cheating and we’d be done. So I never did it again

texascollegegirl · Answer

I cheat on my boyfriend every day but partly it's because he loves it and partly because I can't say no to the biggest dick Blacks. I wouldn 't forgive him if he cheated on me with any gender as I don't have the compatible fetish that makes it the right thing to do. He knows I'd dump him if he even explored it. I have given him some experiences with girlfriends but it's always around shared fetishes and always I'm running it so it's okay.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

No idea why it would matter. In general when it comes to almost all things gender/sex is irrelevant unless it's a very specific situation where gender itself would play a big part (can't think of any right now). But yeah, cheating is cheating. When someone does something bad whatever gender they are doesn't matter.

ManOnFire · Answer

It's still cheating, and I wouldn't like it even if she wasn't in a relationship with me.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Cheating is cheating but there's two other concerns here

One, if he's cheating on you with the same gender you can't compete.

Two if the person didn't disclose hint say that they were bi, strike number two

Nikki1989 · Answer

Cheating is cheating. The gender has nothing to do with it.

bowenw · Answer

I would say it would be more difficult to deal with if she cheated with another man. If she cheats with a woman, she may be realizing she is bi or a lesbian.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Yes. Kinda worse tbh because not only he lied about being loyal to you but also about who he's attracted to.

EmmaMary · Answer

Cheating is Cheating... Gender simply doesn't come into the equation... Full Stop.

JestAJester · Answer

Cheating is cheating, although cheating with another man is more insulting. Its happened to me before. I've also been benched before because whoever I was talking to had many suitors so to speak

Miristheiss · Answer

It is cheating. It is a 100% end of the relationship and they would instantly be dead to me.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Not if I knew going into the relationship she was bisexual but if I came into the relationship thinking I'm dating a straight woman ans she cheats on me with another woman then yeah that's a problem for me

Cosmo199 · Answer

Yep, because that same sex can take her heart just as quick or quicker than the opposite sex or they wouldn't have done it!! I can do for my partner every sex act that they can together, all but I don't have what she has between my leg's for her to munch on mine is different but I still feel the same, the person is a threat to take her away permanently

Jennz6 · Answer

That’s cheating and it doesn’t matter what gender he is with

genericname85 · Answer

cheating is cheating. i don't care what the gender of the person she cheated with is.

slatyb · Answer

It probably wouldn't be a problem. I would like to see it, but it would be ok if she would rather not.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Like you said, cheating is cheating. To me that's a one-and-done.

Eleni0199 · Answer

Cheating is cheating. Unless you’s have permission but it’s with Communication.

AnonAndrew · Answer

It's not really a problem if she cheats on me with the opposite gender.

Berethor · Answer

Guys don't tend to care much about girl on girl, especially if they get a FFM out of it.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Its not as bad if she cheats with the opposite gender.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

As it would be if she cheated with another chap. Cheating's cheating regardless of gender.

nudeNhorny · Answer

if she had proposed a threesome instead, I'd have been totally okay with it 🙂

exitseven · Answer

Maybe if I could have a threesome with the two of them I would be okay with it.

starlight345 · Answer

his hiding hia gayness from me is a bigger problem than cheating

CubaPirate · Answer

Absolutely 💯 % as you say cheating is cheating

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it would make me feel like I turned them gay (I know people don't turn gay and are born that way).

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I don't have a problem if my partner cheat regardless of gender, so long as she doesn't get pregnant

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Openly bisexual women tend to be unfaithful. Eventually she will have another guys cock in her.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yes very much so. Plus they could pick up HIV from a same sex encounter.

katiesmuff · Answer

Probably worse than with the opposite gender!

Anonymous · Answer

It would be a problem unless I can watch them, and maybe join them.

Quigly · Answer

It's a problem if a person can't make decisions and stick to their commitments.

itsannalee · Answer

CHEAT IS CHEAT

NathanDavis · Answer

cheating is bad... period

Rashmixoxo · Answer

Yes. That'd be gross as well.

HonestAnswersOnly33 · Answer

Cheating is cheating. Have some worth and move on - they are dead to you.

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

I really wish this app would remove kids

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, cheating is cheating.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Well, it's still cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with you 100%.

12karen · Answer

Cheating is cheating !

Circushowcowboy · Answer

Yes that’s a problem

UnwantedScorpio · Answer

It’s definitly a sin

JessAlb · Answer

Is allowable cheating an acceptable answer?

Grond21 · Answer

I agree, 1000%

Anonymous · Answer

Not if she let's me watch.

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

FenixG45 · Answer

You are correct!

DHX1138 · Answer

Hell yes!

Anonymous · Answer

Yep.

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

Are you a lesbian..

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