What can I do if my Bosses boyfriend is manipulative, rude, betrayed our trust, toxic, narcissistic and so much more?

[Lissy27]

Okay so the last time my boss saw her boyfriend was December 2024 when we went on cruise. Said he is a doctor and has been giving advice on what is best for her father my client. He had to much time to constantly text and talk on phone, renovating a property in Florida. Looked him up through license medical board of examiners in the two states he claims to be licensed MD nothing on file! He sent me a group text to say stop talking shit about him he has more money than I ever will have. Meanwhile is living in my bosses property rent free, not paying any utilities. What can I do to teach him a lesson? This guy is evil and boss is to deep in relationship she does nothing. Never met his family / friends after dating 4 years. Their support to move in together in a house he said he’s buying and his parents are planning on staying in the property he just renovated that she owns.

[Abbycado]

Nothing. That is their business and her's to work out.

[Lissy27]

I understand what you’re saying but my concern is more about lying being a doctor and I’m a nurse and he has been giving his medical advice on my client which causes complete chaos and unhealthy environment. He belittles me about my advice on what is best for my client based on 27 years experience

[Abbycado]

He sounds like a complete ass. Thing is... he will be exposed eventually. No way he is going to keep that lie up for long.

Just ignore his advice. You know better.

[Lissy27]

Thank you for taking the time to reply. Easier said than done! 😩 I don’t know how much longer I can deal with toxic behavior. I shouldn’t have to deal with him. Really it should be my client or his daughter the two people paying me.

[Abbycado]

So maybe one thing you could try is to suggest your client or her father (if I am getting this right) ask for a second opinion. That might expose him.

That is also something that is common to suggest is getting a second opinion on medical issue.

[Flower7]

Just do your job and don’t get involved in your boss’s relationship.

[HungTexan]

This guy is a scam artist. Run and take your boss with you.

[In_Trance]

There's nothing you can do this is none of your business

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim is to guide you through the tangled web of relationships and behaviors. This situation is a bonafide red flag fest, right? 🚩 His shady credentials, freeloading behavior, and manipulative ways scream classic narcissism. Your boss deserves a partner who enhances her life, not drains it. Encouraging her to thoroughly check his claims and build her awareness might lead her to reconsider her ties with him. Unfortunately, it's her decision to lovebomb or move on, so let’s hope the scales tip in favor of clarity! 🌟