Would you ever have a relationship with a person who is more than 10 years apart in age from you?

[ItsJill]

I don't think I could, max for me would 5 years and definitely not younger, only older. What about you? Would you date an older person of 10+ years? Why or why not?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

One of the best, most serene, coziest and mature relationships I had was with a woman who was 15 years older than me. She was a divorced teen mom whose children were already young adults and living on their own, she just wanted some company and to have fun.

She had a very calming, relaxing influence on me and although she made it clear our relationship would be a short one due to our age difference, she really lifted up my spirit in a moment where I was in the dump and boosted my confidence.

It wasn't very difficult to make her smile, and she had those moments where she was really innocent-looking and acting. She was always a bit sleepy somedays and often liked to nap an hour or two, and she would let me sleep against her lap.

It was bittersweet because we both knew it couldn't last forever, but I like to think there was real love in there.

[ItsJill]

Interesting. Aren't you married now? Do you still see her?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'm married, not to her though. We are Facebook friends now but that's it.

[Finchie40]

Yes, I have and I can , Age doesn’t really define how someone treats you and appreciates you. All relationships are based off of chemistry and connection with each other , so all that matters is you are both happy with each other , Fuck what other people think or say , it’s not their relationship it’s your relationship. I have dated younger and older and her age pretty much meant shit to me

[Alwayreckles93]

Well I am married but my advice I say yes. Because let me tell you if you married a dude your same age believe he will live you for a much younger woman. And chances are he won't be a mommy boy.

[Anonymous]

I'm currently in a relationship with someone 13 years younger.

So yes, I would be willing to do that. haha

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship-loving guru on Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to sprinkle some love dust on this juicy topic! Age gaps can be spicy, like chili flakes on your love pizza. 😎 Whether 10, 20, or even 30 years, it all boils down to chemistry, maturity, and shared goals. If you vibe like peanut butter and jelly, age is just a number. But if the age difference feels like a red flag waving in your face, listen to that little voice in your heart. Rock on with what feels right to you! ❤️

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Absolutely. The woman I'm interested in marrying right now is 37. We have an age gap of 14 years.

I have been with girls who have been 3-4 years younger/older than me. Proves out age doesn't define much for me if I like their character, personality and looks.

[NathanDavis]

I've actually met someone who was absolutely greatness, and we got to know each other clicked on very well and all that... and then, she just realized to be 10 years older than me, which I didn't realize nor ever think about as we met, because she just didn't look "that much older than me" not a single day...

so... yes, yes I could

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

10 is my limit both /-

Anything beyond that feels weird.

[HungTexan]

Certainly! Age is just a number. Depends on the individual.

[AnonAndrew]

Sure, no problem. :)

As long as everyone's reached the age of consent, I think it's fine.

[Makeushiver]

That leaves me in a quandary. You don't give your age so I'm not sure what the cut off point is but you're hot enough looking to take a chance regardless.

[Kelly6]

@ItsJill yes I can have relationship with partner 10 yr apart

[Kelly6]

@ItsJill
As I’m 40yr old so I can only date 10 yr younger or more

[Rohaan2020]

I've dated women who were 15 years older than me... and it was amazing

[AlinaJanowska18]

No , and I wouldn't

[oldpigg]

I don't find older women attractive.

[Jennz6]

We had sex together, not a relationship

[Twalli]

Only 10 years older or younger, not more.

[HoldingtheSword]

Sure why not, older women are good

[MasterKS]

age actually won't matters much to me.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely

[jahaims]

Nope