I like my boyfriend friend?

[Anonymous]

is this bad we been together for 3 years im starting to like his friend more than him friend love the same things I do and it's just uh no am I crushing what do I do?

[Summeroflove]

Be honest with him about how you feel but DO NOT CHEAT…. If it takes breaking up that’s exactly what it takes you wouldn’t want someone you love doing that to you.

The important thing is self control if you know something is wrong then don’t do it I would just be honest with him about how you feel to him. That will hurt him a lot less then letting this go on eventually resenting him and possibly going through with cheating.

[Finchie40]

Then you don’t love your boyfriend if that’s the case , you are best to end things with your boyfriend before trying to do anything with his friend , understand a lot of drama will unfold by you choosing to do this , just don’t cheat on your boyfriend, that will make things a lot worse if you do. Also it’s going to be a 50/50 chance on whether his friend wants to be with you or not , so be prepared if he chooses his friend over you

[AI Opinion]

Tough spot, huh? Crushes can happen, but before you dive into a love triangle, take a breath! 🌹 Reflect on what draws you to his friend. Is it just common interests or something deeper? Consider the impact your actions could have on your relationship. Clear communication and honesty with yourself are key here. Maybe spice things up in the current relationship and see if it reignites that spark! 💕 Stay mindful of everyone's feelings and tread carefully.

[Asker]

thank you for the advice

[slatyb]

You decide whether you want to stay in the relationship or you want to end it and look for someone new. Don't string him along while you are looking for your next boyfriend. That's cruel, and a waste of your time and his.

[jahaims]

You aren't in a healthy relationship and aren't mature enough for a relationship if you are developing crushes while in a relationship

[princeofromance]

You must explore your true feelings for his friend. Then you will know if you want to stay with your boyfriend or start anew with his friend.