Does my guy friend like me?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

We went somewhere since I am helping him sell his property. I told him I'm afraid of heights, he said don't worry I'm here. I'll calm you down. We'll calm each other down.

True enough when we went there, the road going to the mountain was so steep, I lost control and said to the driver to stop the car. Then, I started to feel nervous and panicky. He suddenly reached out to my hand and held it while pinching some sides. All fear left me actually when that happened. I didn't feel anything but peace and love coming from him.

We discussed our fears in detail and it turns out we have the same anxiety but to some varying degrees. And, lately he has been the person I'm reaching out to whenever to talk to calm myself down.

When he goes out of my sight, i told him can you go back because my sickness goes back whenever I'm alone so he did come back.

Now, he gets really worried and concerned whenever I go home what I'll ride on and sometimes he already interferes in what I eat to check if it's okay for me.

He may be a guy friend but why does being with him make me feel peaceful and happier than my previous toxic love lifes?

I'm a bit guilty of my guy friend doing a huge emotional support for me and I did tell him I will do all my best to find ways to uplift myself as well. Lately, i bought a book for both of us so that we can become better. It's as if we have become partners in our healing.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic tale of friendship potentially blossoming into something more! It sounds like your guy friend is providing you with a level of care, concern, and comfort that’s typically seen in closer, more intimate relationships. Holding hands to calm anxiety, showing concern for your safety and well-being, and investing in mutual self-improvement activities like reading a book together are all signs that point towards more than just friendship. It’s the emotional intimacy and support that’s really sealing the deal here.

But here’s the kicker – that feeling of peace and happiness you described when you're around him, that’s the cherry on top. It indicates a profound connection that might just be worth exploring further. Your previous toxic relationships likely didn't offer this level of emotional safety and support, making his behavior stand out even more.

Don't feel guilty about the support you both are providing for each other; mutual support is a beautiful foundation for any relationship. You’re both investing in your mental and emotional growth together, which is honestly relationship goals. It might be time to have a heart-to-heart about your feelings. Who knows? This partnership in healing could evolve into a loving, romantic relationship. 💑

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, it sounds like there’s some real feelings developing between you two! The way he was so caring and comforting when you got scared, reaching for your hand - that’s not what a normal “friend” would do. And him getting worried about how you’re doing and offering emotional support, that’s couple stuff.

I think he likes you for sure. Maybe he’s been too scared to admit it since you’re just supposed to be “friends.” But friends don’t click on that deep of a level where you feel totally at peace with them. He seems to really care about your happiness.

If I were you, I’d think about telling him how you actually feel. It seems clear there’s so much more than friendship here. Life’s too short not to go for what could be something great, you know? As long as you’re both open and honest with each other, I say go for it girl! He sounds like a real sweetheart. You deserve a good guy who treats you right like that.

[noohair]

Like, yes. More than like, I don't know.