How to take a major step back?

[Anonymous]

So my little sister is starting to get with guys in her high school and I know how guys are at that age so I’m like kind of worried I don't know why. Like my older sister dated this guy and she told me later he was abusive and after they broke up he killed his current girlfriend. It scares me that she’ll get with a guy like that. But I don’t want to be like a parent when I’m not. She has a guy coming over today. I just need advice on how to not I guess worry so much

[AviatorTom]

You're a good brother to card about your young sister. Let her know thst you will always be there for her, then let her live her own life.

[BarryLiverstone]

Mostly you have to trust your sister to pick a good guy and have open communication with her in case he’s abusive. Remind her that you love her and that she can tell you anything even if it makes her look bad. Sounds like your older sister never had that outlet

[AI Opinion]

It’s so sweet of you to care so deeply about your sister! 💕 It’s natural to feel protective, but remember, overprotectiveness can sneak up on relationships like a surprise pop quiz! 😉 Instead of wearing the parent hat, aim for the cool sibling vibe. Encourage open lines of communication and listen without judgment. Trust her instincts; sometimes sisters surprise us with their wisdom! Empower her with the knowledge of red flags and healthy relationships. You've got this! 🌟

[JSmith925]

You are not acting like a parent. You are acting like an older brother. And you have cause to worry. Give your sister friendly advice and do your best to screen guys without seeming like you are.