What is the first thing you do after getting your heart broken?

[princeofromance]

Do you think men and women handle this situation in different ways?

[FunkyMonkee]

Mope around a good bit, feel very sad, think about her a lot, wish she was still around, at least the way she was when things twixt us were still great, probably cry a little, maybe get inspired to write a song or three.
Over the past 25 years, my heart has been run through a wringer to the point where, I'm not sure I even CAN feel heartbreak, anymore!!!
`01: After being together for 10 years, my fiance started cheating on me and couldn't even tell me for probably a year or two! I'm not a jealous guy so, when she said she had a FRIEND, David, he WAS a friend, as far as I knew!! I trusted her implicitly!!
Early `05: I'd FINALLY found my best friend in life about 18 months before and loved her VERY much!! We were like brother & sister!! And, the day we were supposed you get together to write and possibly record some music together, her asshole boyfriend took her away from me and wouldn't let her have anything to do with me ever again!! That one hit me REALLY hard. Almost 2 years later, we made contact again and she was very happy to hear from me and said I could talk to her anytime I liked, she didn't care WHAT he said or thought! About a year later, she divorced him and eventually had him tossed in jail for molesting their kids!! She & I are still best friends.
Jan. `06: Dad died and I cried my eyes out at the funeral.
July `16, a week after my b-day, mom died. Because of the insane shit my ex-sisters did to mom & I, even AT her funeral, I was just too pissed off to cry or feel much of anything else!! About 2 years later, they saw to it I lost my house and about 3/4 of my possessions. Mom wanted ME to keep the house!!
Christmas `24, my 2nd fiance got severely pissed at me for reasons she completely made up and broke up with me! I WAS VERY hurt and sad to have lost her but I was also VERY pissed at her and felt like that was it!! My love for her was almost completely gone! After a few days, we reconciled and got back together. 20 days later, JUST as I was about to get back to where I was, as far as being in love with her, as I was before Christmas, she did it to me again and just left me a 2nd time 3 days ago!! Amazingly, I still love her and want her back but because of all the pain she's inflicted upon me, as well as those other incidents, falling IN LOVE with her again just might take a good while!! She's got her work cut out for her in that department!! And, if she DOES come back and EVER does this to me again, WE ARE DONE!!! Three strikes and SHE'S OUT!!!
I'm SURE I CAN still feel (and fall in) love again (I mean, with someone else) but, it just might take a while, the next time

[exitseven]

I get over it.

[DishLady]

Karaoke — dance, sing and laugh with your friends till you’re completely exhausted. “After all, tomorrow IS another day.” 😉

[DellBell]

Looking my best inside and outside too by hitting the gym, focusing on self improvement, hanging our with friends and gaming

[AI Opinion]

Ah, heartbreak! 😢 My aim is to guide you through those stormy love seas. Everyone's got their own vibe—some cry buckets, others hit the gym or binge-watch romcoms while munching popcorn. Men and women might process heartache differently, but it's all about finding what helps you heal. Dive into self-care, pour your feelings into a journal, or chat with someone you trust. Healing takes time, darling, but brighter days await! 🌞❤️

[Finchie40]

Drink and party with friends’ and mingle with other girls’ and possibly get laid. Do anything you can to forget about your ex. Never be a sitting duck for anyone , if someone no longer wants to be by your side , let them Go , you can’t force someone to love you all you can do is Love yourself. When my ex left me and broke my heart , I focused on myself and did the things that made me happy as much as possible. I refuse to sit and cry over someone that gives up on me. If they truly loved me , they wouldn’t have walked away period and broke your heart. So move on from them as soon as possible. Understand you are single again and you can do whatever makes you happy. I enjoy drinking some beer with friends and mingling with girls’ unless I already have another girl that’s been hinting to me that she wants me , I will go and have fun with her , without rushing into a new relationship, but I will go and play twister with her

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Sinking ship? Time to meet the good old friends!

Cause I have a loooooot of words and tears to drop somewhere, actually in their ears, that's tradition. We all know that. We all know that I'm going to not make much sense in my takes, they won't either, but that's not the point. The point is to let go whatever there is to let go.

Until exhaustion.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't see any reason why men and women would, at core, proceed differently. Emotions are not gendered. Though people can be veeeery constrained by some cultural assignment, and that would create gender based reactions.

[Raphaëlle]

Let the feelings out if that is by talking to a friend or crying or something else. Also giving myself time to heal because the beginning is the hardest.

[Stevepro68]

Music helps. And this is from a movie and and a bit evil but it works for me. Finding someone who looks just like her and sleeping with her. Seems to break the despair cycle.

[Titanic1912]

First, I change my relationship status on Facebook, turn on some songs like “You’re No Good” by Van Halen, “Picture To Burn” by Taylor Swift and “Pallbearer” by Josh Turner and I delete all the pictures on my phone.

[itsannalee]

The last time I was heartbroken I went shopping, vacation and spent the money I was going to give to my ex to start a business.

[Staximus]

Why would you give your money to bums?

[itsannalee]

Because he was broke, he lost his job and also lost his residence permit. The only way for him to stay was to open a business (not a small business) or marry to local people. So i thought i can help him, secretly planning to open a restaurant. But he also had secret plans lol 😂 marry to local girl 😂😂

[Staximus]

Sounds like you were going to give all your money to a smooth talking bum, what if he just left with it? Be smarter than that

[itsannalee]

Not all my money. But some my savings money

[laurieluvsit]

Why would the answer not be cry?

Your heart cannot be broken without strong emotionally attached feelings in most cases.

[Ariesman81]

Immediately diagnose them as a narcissist and tell all my dates how abusive they were. And of course take zero accountability.

[Flower7]

I feel like men are faster about rushing to a new person.

[UknowJT93]

hmmm maybe... and men need couple of weeks to understand and feel for it... I think so

[Flower7]

Weeks is extremely soon.

[UknowJT93]

couple of weeks... fine... then what about 3 months

[Djaay]

Heart broken is what you yourself allowed to happen throughout your own expectations of the other person. It's described as your own set up failure of your own doing expecting in a delusional w as y you perceived matters to unfold.

[Nikki1989]

I get over it and move on. Not hard, you just have to be strong.

[Simslover92]

Cry and listen to sad songs.

[Anonymous]

I signed up to Ashley Madison, just for the sexting. Going all out as I payed for premium. I was getting what I wanted

[ABC1x1x]

The best way to get over a woman is to get under a different one.

[LiamJHayden]

No idea. I've never been there, at least not romantically. I was devastated after my mom passed, and then again after my dad, but never over a broken romance. If both are not committed it is a waste of time and effort, so why lament its end?

[chocolatetwopointo]

id prob js go on with my life, work and earn money. no guy is worth my time.

[UknowJT93]

long bike ride for different villages and people country also fine for different cultures and living way

[UknowJT93]

for update... yes both do different and handling different...

men don't cry or worried in early days but with time it getting little worrying...
. but for woman try to talk with surrounding and cry for couple of days and move on... it's kinda different way between gender

[Anonymous]

There are some girls I know would fuck me, old girlfriends or new girls who I know are interested, so I'd do one of them for awhile.

[Kpop_CrystalKat]

Listen to music and cry my eyes out for about 15-45 minutes.

[PeachyPie93]

Cry and listen to sad music..

[Cathym04]

I need advice because my roommate is my ex but we dated finally after of 3 times of being friends with befits. Now we are over he wants to move on on his side but for me it’s not easy because I really love him. How do I move on

[White_Widow]

Get a drink and move on.

[Anonymous]

I usually get depressed for a long time. All of my loves were unrequited, so my heart was broken several time.

[Crazzyyworld]

Sex is a way of getting away

[lindeasy]

Give his friends head

[Maria0002]

A threesome with Ben and Jerry.

[Dina2000]

A threesome with Ben. And Jerry’s wine.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Meet somebody new.( Take it day by day.. )

[NicholasRedone]

Calm analysis 😁

[SleepingHazard]

Rub it out.

[Runnerdude187]

Do you always do that

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hey, that sounds good to me

[SleepingHazard]

Haven't had my heart broken often, but rubbing it out never fails. Haha.

[Still-alive]

Rubs are goood

[SleepingHazard]

@Still-alive that I agree on!

[Anonymous]

Heal

[Tomisworthless]

Find love in drugs

[Bklynbadboy12]

Bounce back