How protective man sounds to you?

[Misscouincouin]

Hello strangers💐
I want opinions about liking protective men. I feel it’s not really appreciate those days.

Guys: does it sound immature to you? Do you like protecting your lady or do you prefer stronger women?

Girls: do you appreciate being protected or it makes you feel like a child?

Thanks for inputs 😗

[ChicoFromThe305]

I was born a protective person and I'll be protective, I want a submissive woman and a big part of receiving that means I have to play the masculine role and a part of that is to protect which I've never had an issue with, it doesn't mean I have an issue with women that can protect themselves but personally I prefer her out of the line of danger and behind me even if she can defend herself, it's not about being better it's about having certainty and assurance that she's got a 0% chance of her being harmed if I act as the shield and offense while she stays out of the encounter completely.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Long story short if I'm gonna bleed she isn't going to bleed with me and I'd make sure of that.

[Misscouincouin]

So romantic 🥹

[Misscouincouin]

Though I don’t think submissive is the good word😵

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think submissive has to always be sexual 😂

What word would you suggest? Lol

[Misscouincouin]

I would say more you want traditional role gender but not necessarily submissive 🤔

[ChicoFromThe305]

Would that not be submissive tho? I didn't say traditional cause I would imagine that would have to be actually the whole traditional role, as no income or nothing "manly" I know I'm not going to limit her hobbies, her love or interests for anything "not woman like" or even her passion for wanting to look and have her own source of income or a dream job, although I do want her to be a mother, if she wants to start her own business from home for example or wants to sell baked goods she's proud of and stuff, that's all cool, I think submissive just means not dominant which means no masculine features, more femininity, I guess I could've used femininity. 🤔

[Misscouincouin]

Yeah I know what you mean 🤔 it’s just submissive sound kind of pejorative in my ears 🤔

[ChicoFromThe305]

It does? 🥺

[Misscouincouin]

To me yes I don’t know for others don’t cry I know your intentions were not bad 😅

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol I like using that emoji 😂

Is it cause porn ruined the word? 🫠

[Misscouincouin]

I wasn’t thinking sexually but more like this: if your partner tells you something you must do it this kind of submission

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I surely wasn't talking about dictatorship, although when it comes to a protective situation that's how it's gonna go, if I tell her to run and leave me there she better as it will be helpful towards both of our survival, she can be mad at me later 😂

I always tell this to my family, if I ever get into a shootout with someone or something, they run and leave me, if they care about my survival they will increase my chances if they aren't in the presence where I have to be worried about them being in danger, if I have no one to worry about besides myself that will help my survival.

[Misscouincouin]

Omg ok im realizing people have a very different definition of protective than mine😱 I didn’t used the correct term I’m starting to think 🫣 your too far with your shooting scenario 😵 I didn’t mean my husband sacrifice himself for me I was more talking about worrying about your lover. Because nowadays it sounds like a toxic trait for many whereas I find it cute if my lover worries for me

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oh that type of protective, I thought you meant actual protection, life or death type of protection and it's not sacrifice it's a strategy lol

Your chances of survival increase by a lot when the only thing you have to worry about is your own survival or health, at that point it helps you make the best decisions for just that while everyone else you care about is far from the situation, but I'll stop yapping now since I'm just overthinking lol

[Misscouincouin]

Geez that’s not what I meant indeed🫣 hope you will never face this kind of situation it sounds like a zombie apocalypse 😱

[ChicoFromThe305]

A zombie apocalypse would be a lose lose for everyone, the survival is on a timer lol

[NathanDavis]

what's the context here?

is there a rabid wookie on the loose?

protection from what actually?

[Misscouincouin]

Like worries for your partner those kind of things. For example, when my brother wasn’t home I would ask where he was and my sister would find me annoying like « he has the right to go out » but I just wanted to know. I would like my partner wanting to know where I am to me it’s normal but those days I feels it’s seen as toxic

[NathanDavis]

for you to know where your partner, your family or even your friends are... is the most normal thing

that's not what being "protective" means

[Misscouincouin]

Well i think I didn’t use the good terms again 🤧 what does protective means for you? To me it was like worrying for someone

[NathanDavis]

well... for example, and ex-girlfriend of mine used to get out of work around midnight and I always made sure for me to be the one to go and get her back home with me and not on her own

and if I could not do it myself... I would have someone that I knew and trusted to go with her

the particular circumstances, made it necessary

being proactive is also being protective

[Misscouincouin]

This is protective because you worried about her hence your behavior 😌

[NathanDavis]

it's a matter of (necessary) safety and precaution

[Misscouincouin]

Not for me, to me it’s protective but some girls may find this too much? That’s the kind of protective I meant. But some consider this toxic and I don’t get why.

[NathanDavis]

I think... the toxic part would be when a person keeps nagging you about 'where are you..."

"who are you with..." "send me a video of everything and everyone around..." and stuff like that?

this... might be toxic, lol

[Misscouincouin]

I agree with your point! Thanks for always answering my weird questions 😌

[NathanDavis]

lol... any time (=

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some sparkles and help navigate those love vibes! A protective partner can totally make someone feel cherished and loved. It's like having your own personal superhero! But hey, it's also important to balance it with mutual respect, allowing each other to feel strong and independent. It's all about that equilibrium, where being caring doesn't turn into being controlling. Remember, love should be like a dance; both partners paving their own way yet intertwined in harmony! 💃🕺

[KrakenAttackin]

Men are naturally protective of the women they love. When men are actively protective too many women are this as "controlling", when in fact it's an effort to protect women from their own bad decisions (fueled by their single and divorced girlfriends).

[Misscouincouin]

And would you say it’s « princess »to appreciate this trait in a partner?

[oldpigg]

Protecting women is a matter for beta men, let them protect themselves, I am not their bodyguard or their slave.

[Misscouincouin]

Okay 🥲

[pass_the_celery98]

I’m gonna marry her so I’m trying to shoot my shot 🤫

[Misscouincouin]

Yes in cn tower don’t forget

[Misscouincouin]

You didn’t answer though 🙃

[pass_the_celery98]

Guys I’m gonna spoil her sooo 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Misscouincouin]

Stop trying to fight with ghosts answer the question 😭

[pass_the_celery98]

Guys she’s trying to fight with me, I have to pick her up over my shoulder 🤫

[Misscouincouin]

Your talking alone 😅

[pass_the_celery98]

She’s lying she loves me she wants to call me and confess her love 🫂

[Misscouincouin]

My question 🤧

[Agape93]

It's fine but I don't need it.

[Anonymous]

Red flag🚩

[Misscouincouin]

Why😵

[Opinion Owner]

Well aside from the fact that I've read previous posts from you before (kind of a tell).😆 It definitely suggests that you want pampered. And you led with that. Where clearly shows who you think is most important in the relationship. Likely no worthwhile guy is going to choose that.

[Misscouincouin]

Omg that’s what I thought you people here remember what we post I thought it was kind of anonymous 😱 I’m not even often here 😵 anyway it’s your opinion no problem