Have you ever been the one to expose a cheater to their boy/girlfriend? How did it turn out?

[Anonymous]

They told me I was a liar/jealous/disowned me/ended our friendship, and kept on dating

They believed me and immediately broke up with the other person

At first they refused to believe me, but finally figured out and apologized or thanked me for exposing the cheater

I told them, they initially broke up, but then got back together

They believed/or didn't believe me, but now they're actually married

A total of 15 votes were cast: 5 girls and 10 guys. See detailed results

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm smart enough to know I should just pretend I don't know anything. It's common knowledge that both of them will turn on you.

And I recently found that out. My friend was married and I caught his wife out being not a wife. I know her and her friends and I just went to a different bar after hanging out a bit. Kept it to myself. They got divorced over a decade ago and I don't talk to her at all anymore. I told him about that occasion and now he won't talk to me. Even after a divorce and being separated for years... coming between two people in any way is just asking for it.

Another story that is sort of related... this guy found out I was fucking his pregnant wife. I guess she left her burner e-mail open and he found our messages. I'm only telling this story to explain the psychology of these people. So instead of worrying about his cheating wife... he just focuses on me. As if I asked myself to come over and nut on his child in the womb. If it wasn't me, it was just going to be another guy.

To sum up my meaning or lesson here, a couple will team up against the outside world way before they'll be grateful. Doesn't matter if they're already split up or at each other's throats. You are, and will be, an outsider that is just hurting them both. ... in their heads that is.

[Finchie40]

I told my best friend that his girlfriend was screwing around on him behind his back cuz i saw her hooking up with another guy at a bar/ restaurant I was at , she didn’t see me , but I took pictures of her cheating and immediately told my friend , and he ended up dumping her right away. but other than that i usually stay out of other peoples’ business unless it’a someone I am close to

[Smashingdoozy]

I've exposed many people, get a lot of messages from men who are married with and without children or in a relationship. They stupidly use the same account that has photos/videos/ tags with their partner. Often I just send screenshots of the messages. Either get a thanks for letting me know or no response at all.

[naartjie]

I’ve never been in the position.
I did expose a friend boyfriend for cheating but she believed him that he wasn’t and she stopped being my friend. 2 months later she came crying back to me that he had been cheating on her and she then caught him, he didn’t care and he admitted it all to her.

[AI Opinion]

Exposing a cheater is like walking a tightrope over a pit of red flags 😅. I did it once, and oh boy, what a whirlwind! The person was grateful but heartbroken, yet it felt good knowing they could move on to something healthier. Sometimes honesty is the best policy, even if it's a bit awkward! 💔✨

[Anonymous]

I am about 99% sure one of my ex gfs cheated on me with her coworker about 1-2 weeks before she dumped me.

It was as floating around my mind but I didn’t want to believe it. Also I didn’t want to falsely accuse her of something because at the time I knew that would make the chances of us reconciling go from slim to none. For a few months I thought there was a semi chance of us getting back together (I was dead wrong but that’s another story).

What I am angriest about is not the incident in itself. But how she treated me during and after the break up. She treated me like I was less than human. Lower than pond scum.

Of course I didn’t expect her to be all nice and warm given it was her decision to break up. But now I believe she was trying to self justify her bs and placate her guilty conscious by casting me as a scumbag. Like I “deserved” to be cheated on.

[itsannalee]

Never, my friend cheated on his wife. I always tried to give his wife clues that he cheated on her but she never noticed it.


And my friend always posts any romantic things and seems like a good husband in his social media 🤮🤮🤮

[Anonymous]

yes, I took a picture of
me and him
after having sex
in the woods
then sent it to her
in a conversation
but seems like
getting him in trouble only made their relationship stronger
was fucked up
and pointless
all I did was give them an idea
to get back at me haha on their birthday
taking a picture on a romantic dinner kissing🤣 guess I deserved that
yup even👍

Jealousy
vs Jealousy

[moneymagnet24]

Love you 😘

[RavVid]

I have never done so. I resent being involved in cheating by having knowledge of it and I have most often resolved the conflict by distancing myself.

A cheater was exposed to me and I was grateful though very unhappy.

[PeachyPie93]

No not usually.. the only people I knew were cheating everyone knew they were already, even their partner so no need to cause drama that they basically already knew about.

[Nikki1989]

No, I don't stick my nose into someone else's private life, even if I don't like what they are doing.

[desidoll]

Yes, but I was pressured by her to tell the truth. She didn’t take it well and they broke up after that.

[lilBigPotato]

I know some friends who cheated. It's none of my business. I can give my opinion to my friends but I'm not going around telling people

[Emmytexrex]

I don't put my mouth in other people's business but if I tell you once as a close friend you doubt I will never ever tell you again until you find out yourself

[DrPepper12]

Never did. Was exposed by my own stupidity and poor planning tho... 🤷🏻‍♂️ Crazy teenager! 😛🤣

[Anonymous]

I did. She is so good at lying he believes her. He's a JA anyway. Their oldest will be the next teen mom.

[Lokiion]

No I just mind my business unless it’s someone I’m close to

[GlowUpGirly5]

A cheater knows they're a cheater so what exactly do you think you exposed?

[Anonymous]

Yeah this has happened. The third option actually.

[msc545]

No. I don't get involved in other people's business.

[danielle872024]

No , the cheaters will soon get caught

[Jennz6]

I would never say anything

[_Autumn_]

I've never done anything like this.

[princeofromance]

He was found out in the end anyway.

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

I'm wiping my bum rn