Do you agree with this photo about what men and women do after getting cheated on?

[coachTanthony]

[Rosexøxø]

It kinda is. Some ladies don’t make sense to me.

BUT

it’s kinda the same thing. Most guys will try to get that stuff to compensate and hopefully win another girl. Somehow he was rejected or betrayed before so now he thinks and tries to obtain more to raise his status “ “ and ideally prevent something like that from happening again. Or if he’s really cynical- just be able to pay for any woman cause he knows (believes) he will never be liked naturally for himself (since the betrayal).

It’s like all of that is the long game for the same result. Essentially.

But yeah, more ladies should ultimately try the same thing. It just feels so lame, mainstream, cliche, and cheap. Obviously a guy has typed these as well. My guess or a lady who listens to guys views a lot at the moment. Because if it was a lady who actually captured the lady side of this coin, the lady side would have beauty things in it and not just have it focused on the male genitalia or men alone. It would be 💅💄🥿👠👙👗👛🌂👒👢💇‍♀️💆‍♀️🧖‍♀️💃🧋🧁🍑🍉🍎🫐🥑🥥🌶️🫒🍸🥂🎼 and things like that- NOT just the act of a bj

bur do they both intend to use these things for the same end result. Most likely to yes.

🤷‍♀️

And both men and women have tried revenge bodies and such. It depends on person to person.

[Rosexøxø]

Essentially the lady tries to beautify/ seduce/ attract and the guy tries similar approach but it’s more presentation type stuff or performance/provision based. Cause guys before would usually provide while the lady would attract with her charms. Both should ideally just focus on bettering themselves for themselves and try to avoid toxic people altogether.

Do I agree with the image? I would say yes at the concept- just not to well conveyed/expressed, but since it was a bit inaccurate I will just put disagree. For now.

[DishLady]

Hmm. No, but only bc it skips the fact that guys also tend to plow through women and treat them as if ALL WOMEN are the same as the idiot who cheated on them…. And it also skips the part where girls dig into the ice cream, ALSO double up on gym, shopping and projects for the “revenge body” and wardrobe as well as the task that will lead them to the next guy.


Looking at the graphic, clearly it was don’t by a guy to make women feel bad, so add “graphic design” to the list of what guys do when they’ve been cheated on. 🍑🍑🍑

[KrakenAttackin]

Very few men are able to plow through women, but any woman can have a train ran in her with a couple of phone calls.

Chads will always plow through women, regardless.

[DishLady]

Meh. It’s a matter of opinion, I guess. I’ve seen some guys “hop back on the horse” with a vengeance and I’ve seen some shut their hearts away forever. It’s not one way for all guys (or girls). Besides the one gold-digging chippy I happen to know I’ve never seen a girl run through guys to avenge herself of the one guy who rejected her… and also not the stated 🌶️🫦 either…. 🤷🏻‍♀️

“Chads”? What in the name of pickles is a Chad? You’re gonna teach me new lingo old man? 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

"Chad Thundercock" is the top 3-4% of men that women will do anything for, absolutely anything. I have a good friend who is a Chad Thundercock and his exploits are legendary. I need to do a my take" about his experiences with women.

[Crazyced]

Not really a matter of opinion though when 1 in 3 men between 18-30 in America haven't had intimacy in the last 12 months or more. The majority of the remaining 2-3rds is probably not fairing much better and most are probably coupled up. The reality is the average dude can't just decide to 'slut themselves out'. It's simply not how it works for most men. If you're in a position to do so it's because you got something going for you that makes you stand out.

[DishLady]

@krakenattakin 😂😂😂 my goodness. Yeah a my take would probably make for an interesting read. Ooof!

I get what you mean, though. I usually back away from guys like that. They already have a fan club. They don’t need someone like me chuckling in the background.

[DishLady]

@Crazyced, That still doesn’t equate to how the women are depicted in the graphics here. Also, those stats are partially due to the shift from heterosexual interactions to the more open connections recognized today.

[Crazyced]

My response wasn't about how women are depicted in the graphic but on your 'men plow through women' generalization. I'm also not willing to say lesbians outnumber gay men enough to make a significant impact on the gap. Quite the contrary, it would look even more bleak if you stuck to heterosexual men. Are women more sexually fluid then men? Absolutely. Does that sexual fluidity explain this kind of disparity? No I don't think so. Women don't need bisexuality to have plenty of opportunities for intimacy.

For men on the other hand, bisexuality would make a tremendous difference on the outcome.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

@KrakenAttackin you’re arguing with an old lady that doesn’t even know what a Chad is bro lol

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

There are way less SIMPS out there than when I was in my 20s just ten years ago. My ex wife and I went to a Sturgis rally in our early 20s and women walked around NUDE and I glanced at one getting me a beer and it started an argument! This old ass biker dude and his little bro took my wife’s side as she made a scene and told the to gft, today I can go to a coed sauna and young ripped dudes just talk about how women have basically become hoes in harems for the rich 6’6 chads out there and how they aren’t worth it. Peace

[DishLady]

@ocewildtwiceburned, And you’re a delusional loser. Good luck with your sad-sack single life “bro”.

[Summeroflove]

If your revenge is sleeping with tons of people. That man dodged a bullet or woman for that matter. That is another level of pathetic that just shows why nobody wants them

[OlderAndWiser]

My "revenge" was to move forward and find another relationship which made me happy.

[princeofromance]

No, I do not. I believe in a loving relationship.

[sage2021]

No because I never wanted revenge when my husband cheated on me and abandoned my new baby son and myself. Plus he stole my car I bought before I ever knew him and he never paid his child support either.
I've been told that I have the gift of forgiveness and I believe that I do.

[naartjie]

Lmao it’s the other way around!
Last guy I was with, things ended and he jumped in bed with another girl the same week! Disgusting. Saw them at the gym the very same week all over each other.
Years ago, the guy before, yeah things didn’t even end and he was in bed with another girl and when things ended, he was in bed with another two different girls.
Men are always looking and always wanting more

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

See back when I was a young about 10-12 years ago, a lot of us got married, And you see when a guy gets married in the west in this Duluth model post feminist world, the guy gets screwed so bad that many times, especially if you’re a combat vet on top of it, or have financial issues, they self delete.

You see we lost our kids because she cheated on us. We lost half of our income for 18 years and our houses if we had one…because she cheated on us and we sent a mean text or some other frivolous thing that shouldn’t matter on having your kids taken and kept from here and half of your income, lost.

Now y’all are jumping on tren playing video games with a bunch of other guys that understand the absolute trash state of modern women, or they are going to Thailand.

We just had the bar and maybe some Ju Jitsu, and we had video games too, But it was a different world then the Simps were everywhere. I see a lot of less guys who are in their 20s who act like Simps.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Yes, i agree. Y’all are lucky though, or you’re just smart enough to learn from the mistakes of my generation not to have kids.

[purplepoppy]

Men

Women

more like this

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣

[RichA322]

Close to what I did when I was cheated on.
But after the last time I was cheated on, I just stopped caring. Like completely. I just kicked her out and started having ONS for two months to just to show myself I don't care anymore.

[avery58]

Nope. Lots of guys go after 304's after a breakup as well

[MisterWack]

No. There are cases of men going through divorce or went through divorce or gone through a breakup / rejection who kill / harm / stalk their exes.

These emojis I could easily play men do violence while women build on their life though each individual is different and I don’t play “emojis” the way people play emotions.

[MisterWack]

*Not saying all men or women, just saying posts like these are divisive & ridiculous.
Whether you are a man or woman, just move on and self improve for yourself not because some post guilt tripped you into doing it.

[PeachyPie93]

Maybe for some women sure, but my revenge would just be to start looking hotter and get the guy jumped :P Not fuck anyone else because after a breakup I always hate men.

[NathanDavis]

I don't know how real that show was...

but according to Cheaters... there was just a lot of chasing and fighting, and running... lol

[Anastacia1989]

Depends sometimes yes and sometimes no. When my ex boyfriend had cheated on me I was just focusing on myself and bettering mysef - went for therapy, did some self-care, saw my girl friends, etc….

not all women hook up with other guys for revenge lol

[BMW_888]

Most guys cannot stick to 1 women. Infidelity number 1. Also, love is blind.
Old School Gentleman the best.

[RichA322]

Don't know. I only heard rumors that women do that.

But since I have never cheated on a women, but I was cheated on, i can only confirm that I did what the graphic showed 😎

[RichA322]

And I also had casual sex for two months, after I kicked her out. Not to make her jealous, but because I stoped caring.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Men love deeper when we love, so when we get broken hearted we refuse to allow ourselves to be hurt like that again and therefore switch to caring about ourselves.

Women GENERALLY love more for what the man can offer her, and male attention is the driving force for straight women’s ego and self worth, so when women break up, their ego takes a hit and they use empty male sexual partners to make themselves feel like they are desired to repair their ego.

[Anonymous]

Another accurate one for men is to kill their cheating spouses.

[michael1469]

My revengere-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Flower7]

I feel like it’s the other way around.

[Crazyced]

Basically men have prerequisites that most women don't have (for casual intimacy anyways).

[MikeRJ]

What does eggplant have to do with revenge?

[Maria0002]

My revange is living like they don’t matter to me.

[KittygosMeoWW]

No lmao it’s the other way around

[Crazzyyworld]

Bimbo ‘s revenge

[RavVid]

Broadly it is accurate.

[Dongie]

😮😂🙄

[chocolatetwopointo]

no it depends on the person

[UknowJT93]

I didn't get from picture

[HelpfulWoman]

nah. easily

[Phoenix98]

Accurate.

[ChicoFromThe305]

With some people yea

[CallmeTheKnight]

That’s not revenge