I have ED. Should I even bothered to pursue women anymore?

[Anonymous]

I have ED. And I am not a virgin. Weird, isn't it?

My first relationship was when I was 19. My girlfriend and I failed at our first try due to my ED. And in our second, we managed it but it took a lot of effort.

We broke up later due to pandemic and long distance relationship. It has been 5 years. I have been single since then. At this 5 years long process, I have tried it with 2 different woman: same result with ED.

I have paid a visit to 2 urologist. Both checked my test results and said that my problem is psychological, not biological. They gave a prescription to me to use a medicine till I gain my sexual confidence. But I haven't did that. I self sabotaged myself.

Now, I am a 24 years old young man who is self sabotaging himself and staying the hell away from women. Whenever I see an attractive woman my problem comes to my mind and I " forget about it."

What the hell am I supposed to do? I am an overthinker..

[Finchie40]

If you have ED then you are best to not say fuck it and focus on getting yourself better , seek counseling if it’s stemming down to psychological issues. Most ED is curable if you stick to getting help instead of just saying fuck it. Have you tried Viagra or Cialis? I experienced ED for a short period of time and I immediately went to my doctor to find out what was going on , My doctor was able to help me and overcome it , he gave me a script for Viagra and it worked wonders for me to the point I no longer needed it anymore. But I still use it from time to time if I know her and I are planning to screw all night long. It’s the best drug for men in my opinion and you will more than likely rock her world without a doubt , Viagra only works when you are in the mood , it doesn't just magically make your dick hard , if it does then you have some other issues going on that you should address to your doctor. But Viagra works awesome for me and she more than likely won’t complain because she will tap out before you do lol

[lightbulb27]

so does it work when no woman there but woman there, doesn't work? This is a common issue to porn addiction. As well, could be other issues going on physical. It's a complex emotional chemical mechanism.

give up no, but have to figure out what going on and solve.

[Nikki1989]

Talk to a doctor. You are far too young for this to be happening.

[Asker]

I already talked to 2 urologists. Haven't you read my description? 🤣

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to support you on your brave journey towards building confidence. 🌟 First, give yourself a break, 'cause you’re not alone and this isn't game over for your love life—far from it! Many men experience ED, and the fact that you’re seeking advice is already a leap forward. You've tackled the medical side; now it’s time to work on the psychological aspect. Perhaps consider therapy to explore the overthinking and self-sabotaging tendencies. Plus, using that prescribed medicine could be a good starting point for boosting your confidence. Remember, real connections aren't solely about sex; intimacy is more about communication, trust, and chemistry. Good luck, champ! 💪❤️

[AnonAndrew]

Go ahead and use the medicine, get therapy, and then go for the girls.

Unless you plan on never having sex? In that case, try to find an asexual girl.

[Asker]

I am not planning to not having sex again. But sometimes, when I think about this issue, a life without sex seems inevitable to me. F... it. I should be enjoying being young now. But I keep masturbating myself once a week and stay the hell away from women instead. Jeez.

[AnonAndrew]

Go ahead and go with the medicine and therapy, man. Worst case scenario you waste a bit of time. But you might also change your life for the better.

[BadApple69]

The brain is the largest sex organ and that’s where 90% of sexual problems start.
Not sure why you are sabotaging yourself. Sex is a good thing…..

[Anonymous]

Lots of therapy dude. If you feel good in yourself, I don't see why you would not be successful in your life and with a relationship.
I realise this may undermine your sense of masculinity but it is not a death knell.