Do you think trying to hurt your partner back after they cheated is worth it?

[Therealdeal01]

[Summeroflove]

The answer is no it’s not worth it you’re allowed to hurt but don’t scoop to their level. It’s destructive to be cheated on and I’m sure you feel broken inside like someone took your heart and just smashed it like a grape.

But do not become the type of bitter vindictive person that they are. Because truthfully speaking they would probably get off to that if they have no remorse. If he’s not a dark personality who can feel remorse. Then he probably feels absolutely horrible for what he did and regrets loosing you. If he is a dark personality at best he’s indifferent and at worse he is happy he did this to you.

Some people are sick but it hurts because you’re someone who has empathy you projected that on him assuming he also has your best interests at heart when he really never did. He seen something in you he doesn’t have and used that once he didn’t need you anymore he discarded you and found someone else. By the time you caught them cheating once chances are they did it a lot unless you’re extremely lucky or they’re extremely clumsy. Many are good at hiding it in the beginning but eventually they become reckless or even want to get caught.

Allow yourself to grieve you’re going to feel sadness, anger, depression, and all these other horrible emotions you’re allowed to have and are completely valid feelings. But don’t do something that could come back to bite you in the ass. Don’t give him something he can use over your head legally or your reputation. Making you look like you’re the villain. You’re the one whose obsessed. You’re the one who did all this stuff not him…. They will use anything against you. Don’t give him the fuel.

Eventually you’ll grieve him. You’ll learn from this experience and hopefully find someone better. Maybe he was in your life to teach you a lesson and maybe you were in his life to show him something as well but maybe he chose to double down on his degenerate lifestyle and try to take someone else down with him.

Being cheated on is SOUL CRUSHING…. Just learn that too by how you feel to never ever cheat on someone you love. As well as know the red flags to now throw your love away on someone who doesn’t deserve it. When there is someone else out there who does.

[Finchie40]

Nope, it just makes you look just as bad as they are , the best revenge is to move on and exempt them from your life and act like they no longer exist to you, do not give them any of your time, if they try to call you or talk to you , just ignore them until they get the hint to leave you alone , they will be hurting inside knowing you no longer care about them whatsoever. Making them realize how much of a piece of shit they really are and hopefully teaching them a lesson to never do it again to someone else. Because if you end up sleeping with someone else right away , the cheater will feel justified for their actions and act like you are the reason they cheated in the first place , because you cheated as well , so never give a cheater an excuse , they dug their own grave so let them get out of it on their own.

[emeraldsaphire]

I understand the desire. I think it's only natural to want to make your ex feel how you did. Problem is I think revenge is a dicey game. It can take up so much time, energy and and put you at risk. So I'd not want to do it

[Abbycado]

No, moving on and getting past it rather than playing games is the right thing to do.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the revenge game! 😏 My aim here is to help people navigate the tricky waters of relationships. Seeking revenge after your partner cheats might seem tempting, but it's often a one-way ticket to more pain for both of you. Instead, focus on healing and understanding what *you* need moving forward. 😊 Turn that energy toward self-care or rediscovering YOU! Trust me, that will feel much more rewarding than plotting revenge. 🤗 #MoveOnAndThrive

[HawkPerception]

Truthfully I believe that revenge is sweet. I don't believe if someone slaps you, you should turn the other cheek.

If someone cheats on you, it doesn't mean you should cheat on them though. That just puts you at their level. I'd personally find some creative way to back at them. I don't believe it's enough to just "walk away and be the bigger person". Why should they get to do that to me with no consequence? I don't believe in karma. I WILL BE the karma.

I'd probably just breakup with them by exposing them in a very public way that shows their character to the world.

[Communicationisking]

No... If still talking express your feelings but don't be spiteful that's not going to help anything

[Shiprex]

Revenge is never worth it. Walking away with your character intact is how to deal with it.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope break up with them, I'm sure it will be the best revenge when you move on

[Anonymous]

Find someone better and be happy. That's the best revenge.

[jahaims]

It hurts them more to cut contact and not react

[Pterodon]

Revenge is never worth it