Do you keep secrets you'd not even ever tell your spouse/partner or anyone?

[Anonymous]

Mysteriously I just wonder if there are ever such secretive folks out there. Even if the secret isn't bad lol.

Yes I'd be like that and for good reasons

No I'd never be like that.

[Finchie40]

I am pretty much an open book and I don’t like keeping secrets from people I truly love and care about , I told my ex all my dark secrets and things that are t to easy for me to talk about to her because her and I were very close together and loved each other. She also told me dark secrets about herself. So if I truly love and care about someone , and I want to be with them for the long haul , I am an open book

[serious]

The answer is yes.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

Yep with my ex. I had some things that I would take to the grave because I know he wouldn’t take it well if he knew. But I’m an open book with my current one, he knows all of my weird and dark secrets.

[DancingQueen16]

Well one thing I've never told my boyfriend is that he kinda reminds me of my first crush and the reason why is because I don't know if he would find that cute or if it would make him weirded out

[Asker]

@dancingqueen16 do you secretly miss the first crush / deliberately found a man years later to fill his void even aesthetically?

[Asker]

I wonder

[HawkPerception]

Keeps secrets from your partner is never healthy. I'm an open book with most people and with my partner, even more so.

[sawno]

No, I was very open with her. She also was so good at reading people that if you are the type to hold a secret she will call you out instantly. The reason she was with me and we worked so well was because I was honest even if I knew she would not like the answer.

[dustybiker2]

There is mystery and there are secrets. One is alluring and the other can do damage. I avoid damage.

[Anonymous]

I don't hide a lot. I am up front about being bi, and things like that, but I don't think he should know how I made rent when I was poor. Yeah, that way.

[KostasKouvalis]

I'll say this, I will only marry the kind of woman I could share sensitive government information with. And I would even tell her sensitive government information if I knew I could get away with it without putting our lives or freedom at risk.

[LazerBean]

I'm sure there are people like that out there, but I love gossiping with my husband. I don't think it is really gossiping since we are married though.

[Joshydavid25]

I mean if they really wanted to know my darkest secrets just to build trust between us, they can.. As long as I know theirs..

[Anonymous]

There are things from my childhood and teenage years that I am embarrassed about, that I most likely would not tell someone who I am dating.

[altaboy]

Yes, there is something but I am only hiding it to protect someone else.

[Gymrat01]

No keeping secret kills relationships and trust.

[Cheerfull009]

All secrets should not to be told to spouse