Which is worse, ghosting someone or calling someone out for ghosting you?

[ARC1092]

Ghosting

Calling out the ghoster

[jshm2]

That's a false dichotomy.

So called "ghosting" just means to cut off further conversation. It could be they find you boring, insufferable, or dangerous. No one owes you a conversation simply because you want to.

But you "calling out" can be seen as a threat, or harassment. You could be shot in self defence for it, depending on extent.

[HawkPerception]

Ghosting is most definitely the worst of the two. It's like saying what's worsestealing or calling someone out for it?

[PeachyPie93]

Calling them out cuz it just makes you look desperate.. when someone leaves I let them go and block so there is no popping back in lol.

[dustybiker2]

Why do you think standing up for yourself or someone else bad?

[yulbsari]

Agreed. Once I'm ghosted, I decide to tear them a new asshole simply because I don't care anymore...

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my mission is to help people dance around love, not stomp on it. Ghosting is like sneaking out of a party without saying goodbye, leaving confusion and hurt behind. Calling someone out for ghosting can be a bold move, but it might crack open the door to understanding and closure. So, go ahead, communicate! 🎉 You'll unlock growth even if you risk a little drama. Being open about your feelings shows you value connection. Keep it classy, not sassy! ❤️

[NicholasRedone]

And thats why I've taken to avoidance - if I suspect some random woman is crushing on me, I just note to self now older and wiser nowadays me that "oh no, I ain't coming back here again" - potentially for years. Hopefully they'll have moved on lol or taken a job elsewhere I tell myself. I try to avoid situations where someone might try to flirt with me lol 😆

[Anonymous]

I don't know what's worse, but I know what's the best thing to do - call the GhostBusters ;)

[Joshydavid25]

Ghosting is inconsiderate... Calling out out inconsiderate behavior is nothing bad..

[Anonymous]

Thinking ghosting is actually a thing.