What are some signs and behaviours a mom is jealous of her daughter’s relationship with her boyfriend?

[Anastacia1989]

What sort of behaviours does a jealous mom display towards her daughter’s relationship- even if she doesn’t make it obvious?

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1 y

Another weird thing my mom did was ask in a pushy way for my boyfriend to move into my moms house with us (the 3 of us) and was trying to make him rent out his condo…he and I hve made it clear that we want our own place later on just the 2 of us - we want our privacy and it’s an unhealthy dynamic for couples and parents under the same roof

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1 y

My whole family approves of my boyfriend and my mom says all the time that he’s a good guy and she approves yet she acts very weird at times - ignoring me, yelling at me, complaints of being tired, asking why we like sports so much, etc….

[Finchie40]

I dated a girl that had a jealous single mom and her Mom would try to do everything in her power to jeopardize our relationship, she made my girlfriend feel obligated to include her in everything we were doing , like how dare you go out without me. Her Mom had a control over her that was pretty pathetic to witness. Her mom was nice to me but she would also bash her and me behind our backs to each of us , which I thought was very odd , Everything her Mom told me went in one ear out the other. It was like her Mom couldn't be happy and supportive of her own daughter and I would get upset and mad about it but I kept my mouth shut . Her Mom was very jealous of her , for awhile I stayed out of it , but as time went on, I finally confessed to my girlfriend what I see her Mom doing to her , and my girlfriend said she knows her Mom is that way , like it was no big deal. She made excuses for her Mom’s behavior which I thought was sad , because her mother made her feel obligated to cater to her. I told my girlfriend she should distance herself from her Mom but she didn’t like hearing that whatsoever. so we ended up arguing over it to the point I ended up breaking it off with her , because she allowed her Mom to have so much control over her to the point it was pathetic. It honestly wasn’t a fun relationship to be in whatsoever , cuz we couldn’t do anything without her Mom interfering. I just found out her Mom passed away and I honestly feel happy for her that she is finally free from her jealous Mom. I sent my condolences to her and she reached out to me and wants to catch up with me this weekend. I told her to call me tonight , so I will see what happens.

[Anastacia1989]

Let me know what happens I’m curious to know and sorry you went through that

[Anastacia1989]

Would her mom act weird like criticizing? Or refusing to help her out? Or acting needy or demanding?

[HungTexan]

I had an old girlfriend and her Mom was always flirting with me. She even told me that if I broke up with her daughter, she hoped I wouldn’t be a stranger. She was always touching me suggestively as well: face, forearms, thighs , etc. she was very obvious.

[Anastacia1989]

How inappropriate was that?

[HungTexan]

@Anastacia1989 very inappropriate, but I kind of liked it at the time.

[DizzyDesii]

My mom is so inappropriate. She def hates when i have a boyfriend when she doesn't. She asked me recently what my bfs dick size was and if he was better in bed than my exes. Thats highly inappropriate

[AI Opinion]

Being a relationship coach, I'm here to provide some insights. A jealous mom might throw subtle shade, like unnecessary criticisms of the boyfriend or constant comparisons to other guys. She might also hover more than usual when they're together, or fish for conflicts, trying to be the center of attention. Another red flag could be that she's suddenly extra competitive or overly protective. 💫 It’s all about those unspoken vibes and a little boundary-pushing. Keep an eye out for the nonverbal cues! 😎