Is it normal to be jealous of you boyfriends baby mother even though he's alwAys with you?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend is living with me. I see him almost every day. But when he's gone to work, i always get a feeling that he's still creeping with his baby's mother. I know for a fact they're not seeing each other because I've been watching them both for over a year now. Plus she, my boyfriends baby mother, texted my boyfriends cousin phone asking my boyfriend to tell me to stop watching her in person driving pass her mothers house. Then she called us both weird. But it's like i feel insecure and feel he might leave me for her. I don't know. It is normal to be jealous of your boyfriends baby mother even though, u know they haven't talked in a long time?

[Anonymous]

It's perfectly normal to be jealous of another girl who gave your boyfriend a child.

Though its NOT normal to follow around your boyfriend and baby mother to verify wether or not they see one another. That is, as other posters put, stalking.

What you need to work out is, why you want to be with a guy whos got children with other women. Is it because you really love him and sympathise with past mistakes, then fine, you will move on in time. However, if you secretly wished for a loyal guy who would give you his children unique to you, then you should find another guy; I guess one last possibility, if you have children from another guy, then you should think how lucky you are he's understanding of that and return it.

[Nikki1989]

That is not normal at all. You need to let these feelings go before it drives you too crazy.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. If you are stalking her, stop immediately.