Are you okay with your partner posting sexy photos online?

Question

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

No. Once you get into a relationship there are certain things you have to stop doing that you can't do anymore. You shouldn't be hugging other men or woman even close friends except in certain circumstances like they're family or they need comfort from a mental breakdown. When you get into a committed relationship you can't touch people other than your SO in certain ways or it's kind of disrespectful. You definitely shouldn't be kissing or cuddling anyone else even platonically outside of family period and sexy photos are definitely crossing a line. Once you start taking your cloths off in private with someone you need to stop taking them off in public.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

No. You can do that out of the relationship. In a relationship, there's no reason to do so.

Men are salesmen and women are marketers. So when they're in a relationship, men should stop pitching and women should advertising.

Women never approached men in the first place. It's men that approach women, even in the form of DMs.

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ShellyB · Accepted Answer

The idea of him doing this made me laugh, I think he would only do it as a joke like hamming it up, if even then.

In theory the answer is yes, it would bother me if the intention was “I want to post sexy photos", what is the point if you are in a relationship, like you are trying to set up your possible next relationship? However somebody might post photos for other reasons that are perceived as sexy, that is different from intentionally posting sexy pics. JMO!

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Meh. It depends where he's posting and also if he's got a platoon of random women liking the pic. When I post a nice pic it's always on private/restricted access for only a handful of people to see it. (Usually in the DM and not on the main page.)

Finchie40 · Answer

I would be concerned as to why she was doing that and why she is seeking attention from other guys’ of she claims to love me and care about me. So No I would t be ok with it , it would definitely raise some Red Flags

Sonorous · Answer

If I had a partner & she did that, yeah she would no longer be my partner. She would be for the streets.

Summeroflove · Answer

Nope lmao. I would want someone with morals and integrity. If someone was doing that they just wouldn’t be compatible as far as I am concerned.

Miristheiss · Answer

100% no.

That would have been a 100% deal breaker. If, as I got to know a woman, I saw she was active on social media and posted eye candy stuff I would have just move on.

If she pulled a bait and switch and suddenly changed and started posting stuff like that or had public pages and had DMs where men could contact her I would have dumped her on the spot.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

In theory, yes. But I would be concerned about why she felt the need to do it at all. That's a much more pertinent question.

I'm secure in my masculinity, but how secure I am in my masculinity has no impact on how secure she is as a woman.

hahahmm · Answer

No. If someone ever wants to be in a serious relationship at some point they have to show loyalty and show that they aren't advertising to get other dudes. Of course people who just want to constantly be looking for more will never agree to that. And guys who have never really had a woman decide 100% he's the one won't get what I'm saying either because they never knew a woman who gave her other options up.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

currently single but yeah I’m ok with someone showing off but they just gotta be cold to people in the dms and comments

NicholasRedone · Answer

@liaraven If two consenting adults, and if my girlfriend wanted us to start an OnlyFans or PornHub accounts, with faces or without, that's probably not going to happen, because it never happened lol - 😛😈😊 however in an ideal world, I wouldn't have been shy ; hopefully she wouldn't have been shy either - consensually and legally (ahh the joys being the 20s couple) lol 😆

Rachey1986 · Answer

Probably not OK with it. But also guess it depends on what you would mean by sexy photos. Just occasionally on social media, maybe... starting an onlyfans is a bit different

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

It's a difficult question because it's an unrealistic situation to think about lol, unless going far away in time, I have no reference points from partners personalities to think of it as a thing they could want to do

Shiprex · Answer

No
I wouldn't find a person who did that in the first place attractive so it's unlikely.

Be confident in yourself, appreciate and value those around you (especially including me) and the rest of the public can do one

FreyaRed · Answer

I'm okay if it's for money or self-promotion but I'm against if because of vanity or for self-gratification

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nah I would think he is a loser and move on to a guy less interested in socials and showing off.

Communicationisking · Answer

I'm OK with it but it can be annoying sometimes when your having dinner and the food comes out and you have to wait for a few pics to be taken for their spicy page and your starving haha.

itsannalee · Answer

Nope, i’m not okay with that. I don’t date desperate man, people who post and nude pics just for attention are pathetic, low class and trashy.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Thankfully not a problem. Some beautiful people have attention to the point it annoys them already.

HungTexan · Answer

II think it’s ok if it’s just my partner. If I’m in the photo, I’d like to give permission first, and know where it will be posted - then I’m fine with it. I’m kind of an exhibitionist anyway.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I can't see any reason he couldn't... in the end it's his body and pics :D as long as crucial for me, parts of his body are covered, the stage is his :D

xcheerleader_jessx · Answer

I'm single but I wouldn't like that if I had a boyfriend

Nikki1989 · Answer

My girlfriend posts sexy pics online, which is fine by me. My husband couldn't care less about social media.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Sexy? Yes Attempting to seduce? No If she can’t tell the difference then might as well not post at all

glennos89 · Answer

Nope if my partner does that she instantly makes it clear to me that she is seeking attention elsewhere. To me that's not being loyal and I wouldn't do it myself either

Yannae · Answer

She is very sexy so that can't be helped. She even has a very seductive look in her eyes by default. But it depends on the why. If she does it for attention, we've got a problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Not okay.
I'm against posting life on social media anyway as a whole concept whatever the content. I mean when personal blog or so.
Sexy photos.. for what?

I understand that people try to convey personality through appearance, but when it falls under just sharing life / social media thing, thats when not okay.

Now if she's a trainer for example but dressing sexy, then maybe there. As on part of her, not just for the photos.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Well, I don't have that worry, my wife won't look at her own pictures, let alone share them. I guess it would depend on context, where online, what types of sexy photos, nude, bathing suit, etc.

Luopio27 · Answer

Im more worried of under 18 year olds, single or not, fishing for likes, hearts and followers with pictures designed to give validation to their prettyeness!

That is not cute, not funny, having to see underage girls posing in varios platforms trying to be sexy.

As far as adults in relationships go, its only fine in open sex relationships to atract strangers with sexu pics!

lilBigPotato · Answer

As long as it's classy... Not that insecure that it would bother me much

bowenw · Answer

If that is what she is into, it is her choice.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes as long as there not nudes why not. It's no worse that when you do to the beach and she's wearing a two piece swimsuit thats like wearing a bra and panties

Anonymous · Answer

Depends how sexy. Looking good, yes. Naked, no.

RingOfFire · Answer

Of course not. Who would have a problem with that? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Ironic_Method · Answer

Potentially, but there'd have to be caveats involved.

jahaims · Answer

The only reason to do that is for seeking attention which is gross and unhealthy

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, she just won't be my partner anymore. I ain't trying to change her. If that's what she wants to do that's fine. She can just do it with someone else 👍

Valdemort · Answer

Don't want that type of energy. Lol

MikeRJ · Answer

No, why would she do that? I am not interested in dating women who portray themselves as hoes.

White_Widow · Answer

Depends on where he is posting and I want to be able to see what he posts and what he does with it. If he is fine with that, its fine by me.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I don't have a girlfriend or a wife but if i did, ofc not!

Kelly6 · Answer

@liaraven we don't like posting pics online , sexy or not.

Anonymous · Answer

I would never date a woman who does that. It's low class, attention seeking behavior, and i have no interest in or tolerance for that.

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes I am good with it of both me and her…. No nudes though….

Ironco · Answer

If that's what floats her boat, more power to her...

knottyguy · Answer

No of course not. Why would she be doing that? Is she fishing for something better? It's fine if she poses for those and sends them to me though.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I am ok for both of us to do it especially if others are paying to see it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

How much is she getting paid?

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap. It's their life

David318578 · Answer

How sexy are you talking?

Anonymous · Answer

No, that’s why you need to tear her ego down so that her confidence will be so low that she doesn’t even think posting pictures of herself on the internet.

DrPepper12 · Answer

ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY!! people should know what I'm hittin and they can't!!

soe11 · Answer

I don't mind at all. My girlfriend and her mum does occasionally.

genericname85 · Answer

hell no. that's like trying to sell the same good 2 times. i'm not that cheap.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

Sure, why not? I don't even mind if she sleeps with other guys

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes ofc

Anonymous · Answer

I don't want you to do that, but I can't control you, sweetheart.

Elena85 · Answer

Only if they showed me first I get a response.

Alex-Snow · Answer

As long as her face is not in the pics

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I can't stop her, if I had a girlfriend, she'd be the dominant one.

Jennz6 · Answer

No, I wouldn’t like it

Iron_Man · Answer

I wouldn’t like that

RedInnocent69 · Answer

I can’t blame her. I am pretty hot 😂

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