Is it weird to send random photos to your sex buddy?

[Anonymous]

We met on tinder, did it 2 times and we only actually talk about random topics the second time we met but we never cuddle cuz he would always stay quiet and read paragraphs after paragraphs on his phone but doesn’t mind talking when I start a convo but he’s the type to only respond though he would play with my hand or caressed me lightly. I have no romantic interest in him neither does he and we barely text but when we do it’s all about dirty talking. Last night he told me that he’s drinking and told me to think about him. So I just want to know if it’s weird if I just randomly snap him a picture or what I’m doing without any thought in mind. (Cuz he’s my first friends with benefits lmao, not even a literal friend)

[SueShe]

Sending non nude pictures is probably okay but I certainly would never send any nudes to anyone.

Today's sex buddy is definitely tomorrow's stalker and potential enemy. Sending him nudes wil only place you in a situation where you are in a disadvantage. Those nudes will find their way to the depth of the internet as revenger porn.

It is up to you to know that your pictures will be lost forever and that you risk to be labelled and to have a reputation. If you are fine with that and that perhaps your future boyfriend or employer finds and sees those pictures in the internet, then by all means, you can take the risk. You are the only one to have to pay for it.

[Asker]

Oh yes I mean as in non-nude just casual like “oh I’m drinking rn” photo

[SueShe]

In that case, there is no problem if you are not afraid that he shows them to his buddies and friends.

[BarryLiverstone]

Why would you wanna do that if you have no interest?

[Asker]

You know sending that doesn’t always mean you have to be interested in them, I just wanna feel more comfortable with him cuz we agreed to be friends with benefits cuz our interaction have been awkward 🥲

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I know that. But so far he’s keeping it sexual. If you start to send random pics he may feel like you want more than sex from him

[Asker]

I see, that makes sense also maybe I just have to make it clear with him haha

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes make it clear. Don’t hint that you want more

[Anonymous]

I think that's totally fine.

[Asker]

Okieee thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome.

[laly520]

dont see any point in sending him pics

[boobliker]

I would say not at all.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!

[cootjuhh]

i would love all kinds of pics