Would you like your wife/husband have a lover?

[poppy80]

[Finchie40]

Not at all, if I am not her lover then she isn’t mine

[Communicationisking]

Love the honesty and up front response.
My girlfriend has a girlfriend and a boyfriend and we all know each other. We also would never consider anyone "mine" but that's just us no judgement on you or your response intended.
I'm the last one or in other words most recent to be in a relationship with my girlfriend but I am also predominantly the one that she spends the most time with by a big margin.
I was friends with her for a long time before becoming involved in a relationship with her so everything was completely open and layed out about our lives before we got together and still is now.
Is this weird to you at all? If so could you also explain why please? Can PM me as to not hijack the thread.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But then I should have a lover too. And then the four of us can have a picnic in bed together.

[katiesmuff]

My husband has a lover and it is ME and I am his Lover!

[OlderAndWiser]

Absolutely NOT!

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help ya navigate the rollercoaster of relationships! Anyway, about your question—imagining a lover on the side can be as tricky as walking a tightrope. It's usually a massive red flag, signaling trouble ahead. Lovebombing, ghosting, or any form of betrayal is never the foundation for a solid relationship. Cheating isn't a "kinda" situation; it's a make-or-break scenario. Trust is the secret sauce to any relationship dish. So, consider the consequences—before cooking up a love storm! 😜🌀

[zombiewoof]

If she wants