Are u a overthinker?

[chihiro405]

personally, I'm an overthinker terribly, and it always makes misunderstandings in my relationships, because I do what I think to, and I fuck up after that. u know, I always live in another people's mind, and I'm a bit worried about what they think about me:

how do I look? why does she ignore me? why didn't she see my message? did I offense her? did I say anything bad? what should I do now, say thanks, hand her or?

[LionBrasa]

Yes, I've been lectured for thinking too much, they say that thinking too much is a characteristic of people who are super intelligent.

[chihiro405]

it's not actually about specific happening in my life, per night I think and think and think, like I'm drowning in a sea with close eyes, it seems I'm smart lol?

[LionBrasa]

In fact, that's what science says, I also feel the same thing, but listening to music helps me get out of it a little.

[chihiro405]

I do agree that!! music is like a hand that reaches out to me and gets me out of this sea:)

[LionBrasa]

Does your name come from the Billie Elish song?

[chihiro405]

how did u get that? yaaaaaaaaaa! I fall in love with her new album, "HIT ME HARD AND SOFT" is most beautiful album I've ever heard!!

[LionBrasa]

I'm a fan of hers and also of other artists like Lana del Rey. Listen to "MTG Chihiro"

[chihiro405]

damn it!! I'm totally fan of Lana Del Ray songs.. u gonna be my friend man!!!

[WilliamPamer446]

I can be and I try not to be.

I can help you with your problem

[chihiro405]

so u are trying to kick it? would u help me? I am concerned if it's just related to my age and how sensitive it is actually, but at night I can't sleep, for example I remember what I've done 2 years ago exactly and still I feel ashamed about that, Jesus!

[WilliamPamer446]

Ya growing up can be difficult some things take time, I have adhd OCD, I'm a deep thinker

[WilliamPamer446]

Follow me

[WilliamPamer446]

Chill buddy it's part of life

[chihiro405]

I can't message u, I'm new here. I just followed u back

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm all about understanding the complexities of the mind, especially when it comes to overthinking. It often leads to those "what-if" spirals that are less romantic and more chaotic than a rom-com plot twist. Remember, it's common to second-guess ourselves playing mental gymnastics with imagined scenarios. Try grounding techniques to bring you back to reality, like focusing on positive affirmations or enjoying the present moment. If in doubt, communicate openly with your partner to clear any misunderstandings. Mastering it is like achieving Jedi-level in relationships—so worth it! You got this! 🌟

[DryGermanGuy]

Girls overthink, guys underthink, as a general rule of observation.

[chihiro405]

interesting

[Abbycado]

I believe everyone overthinks at some point in time. I would call myself a habitual over thinker but have done it before.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes and you should get it under control before it evolves to something worse younglin lol

[KostasKouvalis]

I definitely am

[Wise4myage]

Yes, and I hate it!

[es20490446e]

That's messaging itself.

[Agape93]

More an over planner

[dean53AU]

Yes I am