Have you ever done a loyalty test for a boyfriend?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’ve never done a loyalty test, and honestly, I think it’s pretty unnecessary and a bit childish. If you feel like you need to test your boyfriend’s loyalty, it suggests that trust is already lacking in the relationship. Trust is one of the most important foundations for any healthy partnership, and if it’s not there, no test will fix that. Loyalty should come naturally, not be something that needs to be proven. If you have doubts or insecurities, the best approach is to talk openly with him about how you feel, rather than trying to manipulate situations to test his loyalty. Playing games can only lead to more problems. A strong relationship is built on mutual trust, respect, and honest communication, not on tricks or tests.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Ugh. No. He’s there? He’s communicating regularly? He’s showing appreciation? He’s loyal. Don’t just randomly poke the bear. It’s controlling and manipulative.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

I mean I've done one of sorts to a girlfriend and I was right. Not about cheating though, more about how if she could hurt me she would.

So I told her a fabrication of something bad I did then told her she can't tell anyone this. Only took her a couple weeks to try tell my mother to get me into trouble.

I had feeling she was a rat I was right. I think a trust test is not really a bad thing, if your right you know to leave them. If wrong you can now start to fully trust each other.

It's a win win. And no I wouldn't be upset if someone did one to me, because why would I? I have no intention of failing the test.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Never would do that to my girlfriend and if someone did that to me it would tell me that the trust is gone. I understand people may have some insecurities but if I thought someone was going to cheat on me I would simply leave and if someone started assuming I’m cheating even when I’m not the trust is gone.

If someone sends their friends to sexually harass me it’s over point blank. I’ve seen that happen before… But even if it’s not to that extreme just no.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach who loves sharing insights, I aim to guide others in building trust and understanding. Loyalty tests? They can be juicy but also potentially tricky. 🕵️‍♀️ Trust is key in any relationship, and communication works wonders. If you feel the need for a test, it might be time for some heartfelt talks. Trust your instincts and remember, red flags are there for a reason! ❤️

Finchie40 · Answer

No, that’s silly , if you don’t trust your partner then you shouldn’t be with them period

fartingspinster · Answer

I dont make up schemes to test loyalty, but I don't go out of my way to solve certain situations myself and include him more to see how he'll react/respond and that helps me understand if he's trustworthy. Time always tells and reveals, but im hyper independent and learning to test a guy when I need reliance, help, emotional regulation etc.

I think the initial stages are definitely in need of testing and vetting each other, and then later in the relationship its seeking for that consistency, because if you aren't the same person in terms of effort, communication, empathy as you were when we first started the relationship... byyeee. why do you think its okay to put less effort once you have me in a relationship? I dont have time for that

Shiprex · Answer

Nope and if you have the need to "test" loyalty then you're not the trusting type that would benefit my life. If I am always on the look out for artificial scenarios where I need to demonstrate something that is already present then she's gonna be for the streets

SolitarySolace · Answer

No, I haven’t. Personally, I think loyalty tests can be harmful to a relationship. If trust is in question, open communication is always better than setting up a test. A strong connection is built on honesty and mutual respect, not secret challenges or traps. If you feel the need to test someone’s loyalty, the real issue might be deeper than you realize. - Eva ❤️

sawno · Answer

Me and my ex had full trust. Early on she tested my personality and even though I saw right trough it I responded as I normally would. So she learnt quick that she could trust me and it wasn't a problem.

WellBye · Answer

No, I'm not interested in this testing nonsense.

drummer · Answer

Loyalty tests usually backfire. If you feel the need to test him, there’s already a trust issue.

xcheerleader_jessx · Answer

No... that just shows you're insecure specially if all is going well. Why don't you trust him? What is he doing that is making you think he might be cheating on you?

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nope.. I just would check his phone occasionally. That was until we were together so long I wouldn't of even cared if he was cheating lol

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I don't test him, I think it's a stupid thing to do. But through life he gets tested automatically. He passed everything life's thrown at him.

chrissykerdock · Answer

what could be more loyal than getting on your knees for him

molonski2 · Answer

What in the flying Fck is a loyalty test? Sounds completely ridiculous concept to get involved in.

Purpleronnie · Answer

If there is a question mark over loyalty I wouldn’t be with them. No need to test.

Agape93 · Answer

No I'm not a child. I won't be with someone I don't already trust the loyalty of.

SofaKingsMart · Answer

If I felt a loyalty test was necessary, the relationship would already be over.  The idea is ridiculous

Anonymous · Answer

I never dated the sort of man who required one. Trust was proven through open actions from the get go.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

If you feel the need to do this, it means you don’t trust him. As a result, it’s time for you to let the boy go

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

No. I'm not twelve.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Never without a specific reason. But yes - once. She failed.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

In my case it would be a girlfriend, but no, I've never loyalty tested a girlfriend.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No. I just wait for them to fuck up without my assistance.

Pterodon · Answer

I would breakup immediately if she did a juvenile game like that to me

IslaTheWitch · Answer

nope... and won't happen...

raymondeme · Answer

Yes I done a lot for so many what I get from them is betray and ungrateful

butterfly · Answer

no, i dont need to do this

itsannalee · Answer

Nope, i am not a teen

MemeSupreme · Answer

that's asking for trouble lol

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Bo because that's childish

WilliamPamer446 · Answer

I would do it for a girlfriend.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I'm sure women have 😈

In_Trance · Answer

This is why women deserve less

Wayneg89 · Answer

These are poison for relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

I can not deal with these stupid tests.

Manuelwe · Answer

Never had it been done to me though many curses

WhitneySnow · Answer

I have not

Becky6 · Answer

Uh no that’s so tacky.

MasterKS · Answer

Most people fail in it for sure. LOL

jazzy34 · Answer

Loyalty test?

Alex-Snow · Answer

How is that done?

KostasKouvalis · Answer

What's that?

jahaims · Answer

Gross/immature

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

nope

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