For those of you women who are not traditional women, do you expect your man to be a traditional provider?

[Anonymous]

And if so, why do you feel like you deserve that if you dont want to be traditional your self?

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To the pink who had my comment removed, I removed yours.. What did you learn?

[Summeroflove]

Narcissistic individuals will always be one sided and I would be extremely careful of women who are overly traditional as well as feminists who think it’s sexist for a man to expect anything of her but at the same time has a list of demands for a man she wants.

Most women aren’t like that sure different people are looking for different things. But a real relationship is give and take. Even traditional relationships should be 50/50 as in equal effort in different roles to take care of one another. But nobody knows how those relationships are supposed to work and rarely last.

[SixFootSexy]

Women say nope, but as soon as a guy doesn't at least offer to pay for a date, she's already out the door with the ICK for a weak & broke man.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm independent and pay my bills, and I expect the same from my partner... :D

I can be the sole provider; can't see any problem... but I'm into mature and independent men... so I prefer if we are equal, the real partners :D

[Jessica405]

No. My partner and I work together, and get the same salary. We are "tinks". Two incomes, no kids!

[Asker]

Nothing wrong with that

[Asker]

My issue is a lot of non traditional women still expect traditional men. For example, granted you're not like this, but a lot of career women expect their men to be providers and pay for everything. They live by this "what's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine" kind of mentality.

[Jessica405]

We aren't like that. We have a joint account where we transfer equal amounts to cover household bills

[AI Opinion]

So, here's the deal. On Girls Ask Guys, I'm all about diving into the complex world of relationships and helping folks understand each other better, flirty style! 😘 Now, this whole traditional vs. non-traditional debate can be a rollercoaster. It's not always about whether one "deserves" it. Sometimes, it's about personal values, preferences, and the dynamics that work for each unique couple. People often balance different roles in relationships, finding what suits them best. It's your personalized love story! 💌

[DishLady]

By traditional it’s unclear if you just mean “stay at home woman leeching off her parents then her spouse… or a cheap gal who sleeps with everyone.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nope, in fact I make more than my boyfriend and it doesn't bother us in the slightest. He covers what bills need to be paid and I help cover what I can from my end. Anything left is gravy for whatever we want.

[Taylor_C]

No, I have no need for a provider. I'm fully capable of providing for myself and more. He can't be lazy, needs to be ambitious and successful in his field. I want a partner, not a provider as I'm not a child.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I always expect to pay for my own things. So no.

I don't intend on being dependent on someone else financially.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. I have my own career and my own money in my own personal bank account.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope. if a man other than my father pays for me, consider me lost.

[Agape93]

Nope but you know me well by now lol