For those of you who want traditional "Provider" Husbands, do you intend to be traditional wives?

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Interesting question right?

I've seen this a lot recently. A traditional husband, provides and protects his home. He leads his home and his family as the head. And a lot of women out there want the provider type traditional husband while at the same time saying they will never submit to any man's leadership.

The way i see it, if you want a traditional husband, you must be a traditional wife, If you dont want to be a traditional wife, you have ZERO business wanting a traditional husband.

Its why i thank god i married a small town conservative woman, 12 years ago.

Gwendoline · Accepted Answer

See that's a 1950s fantasy. Traditionally and historically wives worked, whether it was side by side in the fields or keeping the home, or making clothes to sell or working in factory etc it was all still work. There were no lazy women. In past women used to get up b4 her husband to bake their bread and prepare breakfast for the family. Smoke or salt or pickle food for the winter months. It was all very hard work that needed doing. Then there was the laundry.

What these women want is to be taken care of finacially and the freedom to do what ever they want like children and never have to lift a finger at home as the maid will clean the home, cook will make the dinner and nanny will raise the kids and they will spend their time on social media posting pictures of their ass at the gym and their overpriced Starbucks pumpkin spice latte. Only a fool of a man would marry these women, because for starters she wouldn't be loyal.

Proverbs 31:10-31

The Woman who fears the Lord

10 An excellent wife who can find?

She is far more precious than jewels.

11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,

and he will have no lack of gain.

12 She does him good, and not harm,

all the days of her life.

13 She seeks wool and flax,

and works with willing hands.

14 She is like the ships of the merchant;

she brings her food from afar.

15 She rises while it is yet night

and provides food for her household

and portions for her maidens.

16 She considers a field and buys it;

with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.

17 She dresses herself[b] with strength

and makes her arms strong.

18 She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.

Her lamp does not go out at night.

19 She puts her hands to the distaff,

and her hands hold the spindle.

20 She opens her hand to the poor

and reaches out her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of snow for her household,

for all her household are clothed in scarlet.

22 She makes bed coverings for herself;

her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates

when he sits among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them;

she delivers sashes to the merchant.

25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,

and she laughs at the time to come.

26 She opens her mouth with wisdom,

and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27 She looks well to the ways of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children rise up and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

29 “Many women have done excellently,

but you surpass them all.”

30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,

but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands,

and let her works praise her in the gates.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

I don’t disagree. I was never interested in being a traditional wife, so I don’t expect my husband to be a provider. I work more than he does and I pay the majority of the bills. I’m happy to do that and he’s happy to be more supportive in the home with chores.

KrakenAttackin · Accepted Answer

Modern women want a man who will lead, but they refuse to follow. Modern women want a provider, but they refuse to be traditional. Modern women want a strong, faithful, man; whey they are my mostly unfaithful.

Women want everything but offer nothing.

LazerBean · Answer

Im a traditional wife with a traditional husband. It is true that traditional women are hard to find these days. But so are traditional men. It goes both ways

sage2021 · Answer

I wouldn't mind being a traditional wife. I always dreamed of being a traditional stay at home wife and mother but it just wasn't in the cards for me.
I worked outside of my home for 30 years while being a single Mom without any child support!!

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am a traditional wife who do not cook or clean but work full time.  my traditional values are to support my hubby emotionally,

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