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I wanted to be a smart confident independent free thinker I want to know what she's thinking I went to understand what she's thinking
We could be laying in the grass underneath the tree looking up at the clouds can we go look at the clouds and I say it I see a dog well she sees a dog that's cool whatever but I'd rather her say I see TDDAC and I would probably laugh my ass off, and say you know what I see that tooLMAO
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TDDAC* two dogs doing a cat
Although it is extremely tempting to want a traditional wife that defers to me, that will NOT DO!
I require a smart caring strong woman, who knows how to talk to me and commands my respect and worship!
Is she a free thinker modern woman? I don't know!
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I want a traditional wife who will be an equal partner in all that we endeavor to do.
A traditional woman doesn't necessarily entail someone who doesn't think for themselves, she's free to. Free to disagree, free to fight me on things, free to have her own mind. But yes, I do want a submissive wife who isn't all about wearing the pants and making the decisions and desperately trying to be the dominant one etc.
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Nothing more feminine than a softly spoken quietish traditional Wife.
Definitely my preference.
Not sure where this modern idea comes from, lots of women have been free thinkers in the past, it’s nothing new.
also free thinking is nothing without confidence, independence, feisty, inner fire, inspirational, a leader not a follower type.
Something in the middle. A gal who can be a role model to the three nieces. It's always humbling when people admit they are not sure and have the confidence to ask for anothers opinion.
Free thinker, for sure.
Which automatically cuts off a good amount of modern women.
Just wanted to add this comment to state that the way the option was presented is a bit oxymoronic.
A traditional wife is someone who thinks for themselves and is there own person. It is only due to the stupidity of society that people think they should defer. Every woman is her own person and should act that way. They don't have have to defer to any one.
It's really sad that there are places in the world where this happens and even religions in the more modern world where they encourage this.
I hate tradition in most cases, this being one of them. I get annoyed with women who depend on me to do every or many things. If you are able to do it yourself, gender roles shouldn’t be a factor stopping you.
A partner that is strong enough to push back when necessary, and otherwise hold her own. I don't recognise your terms so I don't know which camp my description would fall into but I don't need a slave or a pet or a radical.
I prefer someone who doesn't ask me what her opinion should be.
I want her to think and communicate. Someone who has thoughts and doesn’t express them isn’t being the best partner she can be.
So how does this answer the question? Which would you choose?
I don’t have to choose because it’s not that binary. So I choose someone who can be themselves around me and tell me what they are thinking because I am not a mind reader. That means at times she trusts me and follows and at other times I follow her
Its pretty binary. Women pretty much are one or the other.
Actually they are not. Women are individuals and while they may prefer one or the other women are unique and each one has their own thoughts and feelings
Lmfao yes he is. That was pretty hilarious.
Laughs are fun
A submmisive one but that isn't too much into that traditional nonsense made up by some freaks from the past. I desire my woman to have her own mind and think for herself.
I want a loving, intelligent woman who has her own thoughts and goals. I don't mind taking the lead, but I don't need to. I want to be there to support and protect my partner.
So you dont want shared goals? She should have ones nothing to do with yours and just hope they dont interfere?
I don't like dependent/traditional women.
give me modern career women 😍
Not sure really, but I think Id like something in between.
A woman that can think for herself is more desirable for me.
Traditional wives were the ones that ran the household. They were the free thinkers. I don't get when people think it was the other way around.
I want her to support me but I'm the leader of the house.
It doesn't matters to me.
I prefer her to be happy as she is
my dad, pretty much lets her do what she wants... they've been married 35+
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