I cheated on my girlfriend I regret it so much what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[PeachyPie93]

Confess!! But know if you can't say No to an easy piece of ass you don't really love your girlfriend, you just really like having her around. If you loved her the thought of fucking a slut wouldn't even be amusing to you and the thought of having your girlfriend know you cheated and breaking her heart should have been enough to stop you but it didn't. Showing you that you probably didn't think of her at all at the time of your sexual escapades and it only set in that you may lose her after the fact. Confess let her dump you and suffer the consequences of your actions and only then maybe you will learn and grow up from your bullshit behaviour.

[Asker]

I don't agree with you, sometimes a person can lose their mind. The woman's scent made me lose my mind. So, at that moment, I wasn't the one making love to that woman. I'll confess but I'm afraid she'll cry.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't think it's true.. even if James Franco was putting the charm on me I would not fuck him if I had someone I supposedly loved..

[Asker]

This is true i also did not have sex with the woman i just made love

[PeachyPie93]

Made love.. but you apparently love someone else? You are defo trolling..

[Vevv123]

I think you would have to start by being honest with her. It’s your responsibility to take accountability now, and being truthful is the first step.

[Asker]

I'm scared if I tell her she might cry and break up with me

[Vevv123]

She probably will, and yet that's part of taking accountability. You cheated on someone who cared for you, it will probably hurt her more that you. If you truly care about her you wouldn't let this go in the dark, and whatever comes after that is part of the consequences. I've been on the other end before and it's probably one of the worst feelings. It probably would've been nice for him to tell me, but I found out on my own. In my perspective he didn't tell me because he had no plans on changing. I don't know if that's the case for you, but telling her might help you feel better if you truly are disappointed in yourself.

[Vevv123]

Do with that what you will. I know this was probably now what you wanted to hear. Other than that you can't really do much, but live with the guilt, and that's if you feel any. In my experience, I did not break up because I did believe in him and wanted him to change, I even tried to help him, I thought there was something wrong with me. She can definitely trust you again, but that just depends on you.

[Asker]

What if I promised myself I wouldn't do it again?

[Asker]

Not telling her

[Vevv123]

Ok then that’s ultimately up to you. I don’t think you have to promise yourself. It should come naturally. If you’re struggling you can always seek therapy of some sort.

[Finchie40]

Confess and be honest to her and let her decide what she wants to do , if you keep it a secret from her , you will be constantly lying to her face. You can say you love her all you want , but you actually do not if you keep lying to her face. You only love yourself and what you feel is best for yourself , That isn’t Love my man , That is selfishness

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Tell her the truth and get ready to face the consequences of your actions.

[Asker]

I'm scared if I tell her she might cry and break up with me

[Subtle_Luminescence]

You should have thought of it before making that mistake.

[AI Opinion]

Helping hearts in love is my mission! Alright, you've hit a major red flag here, but recognizing it is the first step. Can we talk brave apologies? Own up to your mistake, be honest, and give her the space she needs to process. Apologize sincerely, but be prepared for anything. Trust takes time to rebuild, so patience is key. Keep your fingers crossed! 🤞💔

[Jessica405]

Confess and accept the consequences!

[RageBabe]

If you haven't told her about your cheating, you should, and then it's up to her to decide whether she wants to continue the relationship or not. Best of luck.

[Asker]

I'm scared if I tell her she might cry and break up with me

[Abbycado]

Time to fess up. You made your bed, now you get to lie in it.

[Asker]

But I don't want to leave her i love her so much

[Abbycado]

You love her so much, you cheated. Mhmm.

[Asker]

I swear I love her so much. It's just that the woman was so sexy that I couldn't say no to her

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Confess, apologize and prepare to break her heart and want to move on from you.

[Asker]

But I don't want to leave her i love her so much.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You can't have loved her that much to cheat on her.

[Asker]

I swear I love her so much. It's just that the woman was so sexy that I couldn't say no to her

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sure you could have because when you love someone, the thought of cheating never even occurs to you.

[Asker]

The woman's scent fascinated me, I think it was her perfume

[Nerdvana]

Why did you cheat?

[Asker]

The woman was very sexy and smelled incredible