Do you deserve an explanation when a friend blocks you to appease their significant other?

[Anonymous]

I had a close friendship with a co-worker and helped him through some hard times including a breakup and custody battle. It was platonic. He left the job and got a serious girlfriend now fiance. We still talk occasionally, but typically just updating him on workplace drama. Randomly he blocked me on everything. I was shocked. I am 10 years older and much less attractive than the fiance and nothing in our communication was scandalous. I felt so betrayed due to how much I had been there for him that I didn't even get, "Sorry, my fiance isn't comfortable with me having a female friend." Am I wrong for feeling this way? Do you owe people an explanation when you block them?

[Finchie40]

It would be nice to have an explanation , but sadly some people have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves, if I was you , I would block his ass as well and no longer waste anymore of
Your time on him , if his fiancé can’t handle the fact that you and him have been friends’ way before she was even in the picture? , then he shouldn’t be marrying her at all , but unfortunately , he is a simp and is allowing his fiancé to walk over him and control him. On the bright side of it , if this makes you happy , his relationship with his fiancé will more than likely not last , if she is already controlling him , it will be a matter of time before she goes and spreads her legs to a masculine man instead. He is digging his own grave by marrying a girl like that. From my experiences and things I have witnessed, girls’ like this , end up cheating , I know this because I been the other guy a handful of times , with girls’ that control their boyfriends’ or husbands’ Most females’ don’t want to be the leader or mother in a relationship, most females want a man that takes lead and makes it clear to her that he will only protect her if she is submissive to him. When I asked these girls’ why they cheated on their partners’ they all said because she doesn’t feel safe and protected by him and he treats her like shit , Females’ need to feel safe and protected by her man for her to want to be intimate with him. I will be shocked if his relationship with her lasts the long haul. But do yourself a favor and exempt him from your life , he is a whipped simp

[Asker]

You bring up a lot of good points. At the end of the day I would never find a man attractive if he has no backbone!

[Finchie40]

Yea I wouldn’t be attracted to to a girl that tried taking the lead in our relationship either , I like girls’ that want to be a team partner with me , that stay loyal and faithful to me , that love having a man that stands by her side and protects her and loves her that wants to be in my arms as much as possible , the only time I might control her is on the bedroom , and I also like her to take control sometimes in the bedroom as well 😊

[fish5505_87]

You're not wrong, that sucks! At least you know now he is not a good friend!

[PeachyPie93]

Not really.. no one owes you anything unless they borrowed money lol Clearly you assume or know why he blocked you so why do you need an explanation? He clearly didn't really value the friendship so move on.

[AI Opinion]

On GAG, I aim to help you navigate the sometimes rocky waters of relationships, and honey, this is a splashy one! Feeling blindsided is never fun, especially when you've been a good friend. You totally deserve an explanation if you've been an important part of someone's life. Blocking without a word feels like ghosting. His actions suggest red flags on his end, not yours! Keep in mind, people handle relationships differently. Remember, you're fabulous and understanding! 👓❤️

[Asker]

I am not going to try to go around being blocked. I just couldn't decide if I was validated in feeling betrayed by it. I assume it comes from him not handling the communication with her well.

[Anonymous]

I think you do

[jahaims]

No one owes you anything.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope