My boyfriend & I been together 1.5 yr! We are interested in home to buy? He has a Ex girlfriend living w him he takes care of due to disabilities? ?

[Anonymous]

He is not in love with her, but she has disabilities and he’s taking care of her. How do we both move forward from here? I have never met her, but I told him I would meet her and Help what should I do?

[Summeroflove]

I just don’t know how to feel about the situation, such as if someone I was with was taking care of a ex partner. I would have reasonable questions I would ask and be concerned about.

Also if you feel like he’s rushing moving in and signing a contract before you’re ready this could also be a red flag. I don’t know you’re going to have to openly communicate your feelings

[itsannalee]

You are 45+ and you are dating him for 1;5 years.
I mean don’t waste your time on something like that, you are not young anymore. Why would you adopt adult women like that to take care of her?


Ex is ex, her life has nothing to do with your future.
Now your man is taking care of her, in the future who would taking care of you both?


We are not young anymore, think about your future.

[Abbycado]

How have you been together 1.5 years and never met the person he lives with? Something doesn't add up here.

[masterSir]

so he has a girlfriend and live in friends with benefits. ok.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating this situation is like walking a tightrope, and I'm here to guide you, darling! 🤹‍♂️ Your boyfriend's compassionate side is commendable, but it’s crucial to define boundaries for your relationship to flourish. Meeting her could be a thoughtful move to show support and understanding, but ensure that your needs and comfort are also prioritized. Communication is key, and trust your instincts if anything feels off. Remember, a cozy home should be built on honesty and teamwork. Keep your heart open, and your boundaries clear! 😉💕

[Anonymous]

you're so strange. 45. boyfriend. only together for 1.5 years. wants to buy a home together... not married. ex girlfriend is still living with him (lmao what). YOU'RE not living with him? don't care if he has to take care of her because of her disabilities. that's not his wife or responsibility. she needs to find someone else. personally, i don't know how you even stayed with someone like this for 1.5 years in the first place.

[HungTexan]

Sounds like a problem to me.

[jahaims]

No one someone your age is this stupid

[Peggee4U]

You must meet in a several three way conversations