Is it good or bad to be a jealous girlfriend?

[Sugar100]

Is jealousy bad in a relationship?

jealous at sight of other girl near him, talking , etc.

No matter how hard I try not be jealous and try be cool, I always my whole life felt severe jealousy. I cannot tame it down. I don't know if this is normal.

[Summeroflove]

That’s really bad it shows no trust and it’s not fair if he’s a genuine guy. If you don’t have male friends and you don’t want a boyfriend to have female friends that comes down to compatibility. As long as it’s not one sided but that needs to be expressed early in a relationship. As well as things such as going through one another’s phones.

But also communicate. If you feel a certain way talk and express it but don’t be mean. Just talk and see how he responds. If you feel like something’s going on and you can’t shake it as well as he gets too defensive maybe you’re onto something. Maybe he talks to you and you work it out.

[glennos89]

It's a turn off for me if I have to be scared that my girlfriend gets jealous everytime some random woman comes to close to me.

I'm loyal I have never cheated before and I never will because I'm fully against it.

But I don't wanne have drama all the time because my woman can't control her jealousy enough. I have had a relationship where at some point I became scared that other woman would come to close to me because everytime it ended in me getting a load of shit over me while I wasn't the one initiating the contact.

Being a little bit jealous is totally fine but not if things get to a level that I can't have any form of contact with other woman because I have been there and I will never put myself in that situation again ever

[PeachyPie93]

A little jealousy is normal but that fact you are jealous from girls just being near him seems a bit crazy tbh lol I think you need counselling and to work on your own self esteem because no girl should ever make you jealous period since they aren't you. Plus if a dude leaves you for another girl who gives a fuck it shows the was never worth anything anyways if he can't even be loyal.

[Sugar100]

I meant jelaous by girls trying to flirt and steal the guy from you and not caring you are with them. I meant jealous about that. It’s to point all girls try throw themselves at the guy so u have to watch out for all the girls that come near him

[PeachyPie93]

Fair enough but you shouldn't let those type of girls bother you. If your boyfriend gives them the time of day I would say it is time to get a new one.

[AI Opinion]

As Brad, your friendly relationship guru, here's my spicy take! A little jealousy can be cute and show that you care, but when it becomes "green-eyed monster" level, it might be time to reflect. Jealousy can be a sign that something's out of balance, either in your relationship or within yourself. Think of it as a red flag for areas to improve, like trust or communication. Try talking to your partner about your feelings – they might surprise you with their understanding and reassurance. Love is a better look on you than jealousy, trust me! 😉

[Finchie40]

A little jealousy is ok but overly jealous isn’t ok

[Effably]

Honestly a little jealousy is healthy.

I'd say that being jealous enough to ask who will be somewhere and possibly making a bit of a show of some public display of affection is healthy.

When it turns into not letting your partner go or not feeling like you can trust them? That's unhealthy.

Solution in both cases is just trust. Hard to earn, easy to lose.

[Sugar100]

I didn’t mean not letting your partner go out to places. If I had a boyfriend I would never do that. I meant jealous by other girls coming near him, or flirting trying to steal him from you. Keeping an eye on all the girls. That kind of jealousy.

But he can go wherever he want I don’t care of that.

[Effably]

If it just boils down to you feeling the need to mark your territory sometimes? I'd say go for it. Done right it is endearing.

[Sugar100]

How you mark your territory?

[ProbablyClueless]

Jealousy is definitely a bad thing. But it's also more common than I think people really want to acknowledge.

[Cyrus000]

It would depend on how much it is. It's natural to be a little jealous and possessive of your partner

[Sugar100]

How much is bad?

[Sugar100]

Like feeling jealous of any girl coming near him is that too much or it’s normal?

[Cyrus000]

It would be depend on the specific situation and how exactly the girl acts

[Sugar100]

But what is considered ok to you?

[Cyrus000]

Would you message directly? I will ask you some questions.

[HungTexan]

It’s a normal reaction, but you should try to keep it under control.

[Spencer10]

Generally bad. Trust is a must in any relationship. Jealousy is a corrosive emotion.

[Ironco]

It's the worst thing you can do

Either trust him or don't...

Being jealous never does any good.

[Cubus]

Jealousy is good, if you do not go too far with it

[fish5505_87]

In General, bad. As stated below, a little, ok, it also makes the guy feel special.

[RedInnocent69]

Good for the guy, if she puts out more because of it. Pretty bad for the girl though

[jahaims]

Bad obviously. Who doesn't know that

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's good unless you go overboard with it

[Agape93]

Bad.