Your partners roommate?

[blackeagle007]

Suppose your companion has a roommate that’s opposite gender. How would you feel about that? And would it be less worry if say the roommate is attracted to their spouse win gender? What do you think?

Updates

9 mo

I meant what if the roommate was homosexual. My phone can’t seem to get it right!

[Summeroflove]

Well you have to be careful. Allow me to put it this way… If someone’s going to cheat they are going to cheat regardless. So it comes down to trust at the end of the day. Also just saying someone’s gay isn’t always true there are people who lie and say someone’s gay or lesbian when they’re not….. or they’re bi.

So if I don’t trust someone I’m not being with them anyways. I just know if they’re gonna cheat they’re going to cheat. Point blank.

[Finchie40]

I wouldn’t even be in a relationship with a girl that had a male roommate period , but I would be Friends’ with benefits with her

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know.. I probably wouldn't date a person who had a roommate period because they are either broke or living beyond their own means.. but it being the opposite gender makes it a worse setup to accept..

[blackeagle007]

So far another requirement about money. Why not see what kinda a person is like instead of automatically judging him because he has a roommate? Its kinda shallow

[blackeagle007]

Oh and I have lived alone and developed a disease called addiction. I suppose now people with the disease are terrible too. These unrealistic requirements are going to make it hard for you to meet someone. Seems American women care so much about how much money a guy makes. Yet you don’t like being labeled as gold diggers

[PeachyPie93]

LOL you have to be trolling... who is gonna want to date someone with addiction? You are 44 and picking up an addition? You need to fix yourself first or date a junkie.. Since she won't care if you have a female roommate since she will probably be sucking dick to support her drug habit.. Like I said you are either broke or living beyond your means (gambling, doing drugs, or drinking) and no I don't have to feel bad or consider someone like that an option. And yes people with those additions are terrible people since they tend to bring everyone around them down with them.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL damn spell check changed Addiction into Addition

[blackeagle007]

I’m terrible because I have an addiction. Excuse me I’ve had this since I was in my early 20’s. You are a closed minded, narrow minded, snobby, stickup, piece of shit, waste of space little princess. Wow you really are terrible. I bet you’re very fat and ugky looking and racist like Trump

[blackeagle007]

You been reported too. You’re very very insensitive. Typical normal stuck person that doesn’t know shut. Only wanting guys for their money. Find digging who’re lol

[PeachyPie93]

LOL like I care if you report me that really doesn't do anything.. and I grew up with alcoholic parents so I don't sympathize with addicts. LOL and you reported me but are calling me names.. Pathetic 😂

[PeachyPie93]

And the fact you had it for nearly 20 years and haven't gotten help to stop shows that you truly are terrible and not a good partner since you won't even try to change.

[blackeagle007]

I been clean for 4 months now. Cut the snooty attitude. You’re making all women look bad. You need to think about that young lady. And ur parents probably drank because they had to put up with a daughter with a stuck up attitude

[blackeagle007]

lol I bet your folks are trailer trash like you 😂

[PeachyPie93]

Well that is a good thing keep up the good work.
How am I making ALL women look bad? These are just my own opinions, it has nothing to do with other bitches lol. Plus there is a BLOCK button if you really don't like me :D

No my parents were drunks before I came along.. And to be honest they are the ones who turned me into this asshole I am today lol. Yet they still put me on a pedestal above my older 2 siblings and give me money since I am stubborn and don't forgive easily anymore. So when they piss me off I can just leave town and not speak to them for years at a time since I don't need family or relationships.

[PeachyPie93]

Nah both my parents have their own houses LOL and my dad doesn't drink anymore.. but I doubt you came from a very good upbringing yourself.. :P

[blackeagle007]

Wait on. You think guys are losers for a having roommate. Looks who’s talking! You receive $ from your folks. I don’t. My folks great people. You called me a loser cause I’m a recovering addict. And you should skip town. Your family is better off. I bet you still live with your folks right? Who’s the loser now? Who are you to have these expectations in guys when you’re not a winner urself? Lose some belly fat, get plastic surgery and be more open minded and polite. You may meet that good guy. I’m sure your whole family is disgusted in having a whore like you around. You are better off leaving

[PeachyPie93]

LMAO I have never been a whore in my life but I bet you have been Mr. Junkie. They give me money of their own free will so obviously I am gonna take it. I still have a job, it's just I am the baby of the family so I get special treatment. Were your folks that great if their son grew up to be on drugs? I highly doubt that. I don't have that high of expectations but you can't really expect a guy who can't support a family to be marriage material and especially someone recovering from issues. I love how butt hurt you are it makes teasing you all the more fun because your insults don't even phase me lol.

[blackeagle007]

I bet I got the insult that’ll piss you off but I’m raised better than that. You don’t know my parents. So grow up. I doubt you have a job. You still live with your folks little girl

[blackeagle007]

And your back in the 1960s. You with kids? You couldn’t last a day having ur own children. No guy touch ur fat ass with a 10ft pole. I bet you got nothing to offer a guy except HIV.

[PeachyPie93]

I do have a job I work security at an old age home, I work full time. And I do live with my mom but why would I move out when I am not dating and don't feel like paying rent?
LOL I have taken care of kids loads of times so yeah I could raise kids. I think you are mistaking me for you since you probably got quite the body count.. There is a way higher chance of you caring HIV than me since I have been checked and I only fucked 2 guys but I hope you figure out something to hurt me with :P

[blackeagle007]

I been checked too for all and totally negative. You still live with your mommy. I doubt t live with my parents. I wouldn’t date any woman that lives with mommy and daddy. So all signs point to you as the loser. Grow up, move out of your parents place. You’re an adult even though you don’t act as such. Wow you’re one sad person. I doubt you’re negative for stds. Why not post a pic of you holding your results if you think you’re high and mighty from your trailer home

[PeachyPie93]

And? I am not looking to date so why would I care if you or anyone else would date me? lol Why would I post it? Where is my incentive to waste my time to prove something to you? I think you should post a pic with you with your results since you are the one with a seedy background and not me. I have never lived in a trailer park because my father always worked hard even when he drank and he owns his own house. I am from a middle class family, I didn't grow up like you did bro.

[blackeagle007]

My folks made more and drug plus alcohol free. They own their house. Besides the difference is I’m a guy, I can be with a good amount of ladies. Plus I’m clean of stds. You been with more than one guy, you a slut lol. It’s easier for females to get sex than male. Try again

Besides I called you out first. Prove yourself you’re clean. Bet you never got screened ever.

[blackeagle007]

You’re a security guard? Hahahaha! What kind of job position is that? Nobody has to do anything you say. You don’t have the power to arrest someone. Get a real job. You are nothing special. Funny how you expect so much from a guy when you got nothing to offer

[PeachyPie93]

So why did you turn out so shit if your parents were so good?
LMAO A hoe is a hoe.. if a guy or woman sleeps with lots of people they are hoe regardless of gender. I doubt it especially since men can't test for HPV..
I am not a slut but good luck trying to prove I am.. especially when your body count is higher than mine.

And? I don't need to prove it.. I know what's true. You are the whore and I doubt you ever been tested since you would be scared to know your results with how you have probably behaved in your past. I tested 3 months after I broke up with my second boyfriend because I didn't fully trust him.. and I was clear of everything and haven't been with anyone else in 2 years.

I let people in and out and I call the police if needed. Sadly for you, men don't care about woman's job position because I am not supposed to be the one supporting the family, but I do make enough to live on my own if I wanted to move out. Plus I have $20,000 in my bank from my mom that I am saving. So what is your job if you can't afford your own place?

[blackeagle007]

Like I said. Guys are cheered being with a lot of women. I doubt you have 20k. If you can afford to be on your own, why still be with mommy 🧐. Your job is a joke. I’m going to the Academy to be in law enforcement when I leave the rehab facility. Law enforcement is a real job than pathetic security.

[blackeagle007]

Oh yea you got $20k as a handout. You didn’t work for it. Sad

[PeachyPie93]

LOL so you think.. I don't like promiscuous men, never have. You can doubt it all you want, I have it. I don't have any future plans.. so why not stay with my mommy especially when she cooks and cleans for me? You can't be in Law enforcement if you have been in drug rehab or have any criminal record so good luck with that. A job is a job, I get a pay check and money so have fun putting it down.

[blackeagle007]

Actually I’m already scheduled to go to the academy. Nice try though. Why don’t you cook and clean for your mother? Show some consideration, you probably don’t value family. I do. Thought about getting that trailer sold hillbilly?

[itsannalee]

It means they are broke, they can’t even offer their own place and have to share with.
So I wouldn’t bother to date them,

[blackeagle007]

So we’re back to how money a guy makes matters to you women. News flash, cost of living is so sky high in the states. You gotta be understanding of that. Not everyone is rich. By the way, are you? 🧐

[itsannalee]

I have my own properties, so i gotta date someone with the same values. I am not looking for rich guy, but the same as me😉

[blackeagle007]

You do you. It’s probably less expensive where you are. But it’s way high in USOFA

[itsannalee]

It’s less expensive, but it’s same. I wouldn’t date someone who can’t even afford their own place.

[blackeagle007]

It’s better to share than with parents

[itsannalee]

It’s still broke

[blackeagle007]

Broke- No money

Living out on own- has $

[itsannalee]

Imagine over than 30 and still living with roommate because can’t afford the whole place. Lol

[blackeagle007]

Obviously you never were in America

[itsannalee]

I’ve been there for vacation, not for live😉

[blackeagle007]

(Sigh) big difference by living here

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic roommate conundrum! My aim here is to sprinkle some flirtatious wisdom and ease your worries 😉. If your partner has a roommate of the opposite gender, don’t start waving the red flag just yet. Trust and communication are your secret weapons in this love battle. If the roommate swings the other way, it might give some extra comfort. Just keep the trust game strong and have open chats about boundaries 🏡❤️.

[jennifer_bloom]

I am not threatened by other women that my boyfriend might talk to cause I know he is devoted to me.

[blackeagle007]

So would you think he’s poor because he has a roommate? Look at the poster peachy. She says otherwise.

[jennifer_bloom]

I care more about intelligence than money but my boyfriend is both intelligent, hard working, loyal, and smart.

[blackeagle007]

It be a miracle if there’s more ladies like you out there

[OlderAndWiser]

But is the "don't worry, he's gay" explanation just a ruse?

[blackeagle007]

Good question